I hate annoying people who want to look cool by picking on me all the time! Any suggestions on how to handle this?
2006-12-05 05:23:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Find their inner weakness and expose it to the world.
2006-12-05 05:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by deliciousKimbap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy, but honestly, the best way to make it stop is to make them believe that you don't care what they say.
Trying to make smart comments back to them will not work. It's many against one, and they will end up getting the last word.
Responding with any sort of violence will only get you in trouble. It's not worth it.
And, if you ignore them long enough, eventually, you really won't care what they say. You have to realize that when people say mean things, it is a reflection on their personality and insecurities - not you!
Honestly, every time they say something mean, just feel sorry for them for being so insecure. See their words tearing themselves down, not you. It takes time to change the way you see the world and the way you react to bullies, but once you have taken control, no one can stop you!
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2006-12-05 13:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, and know that you are awesome no matter what they say. Also stand up for yourself. That'll squash their cool streak. If someone says "you're so ugly" just reply with "and whoever told you you're all that lied, you're not God's gift to this earth! Go pick on someone your own size (puny)!" Then walk away. That should do the trick.
2006-12-05 15:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any solution to overcme this problem. When people start to pick on me, I just treat them as another person who is making unreasonable demand that's all. If I don't do that, I will always be fighting with other people.
2006-12-05 21:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. When they cannot get a rise out of you, they will seek out somebody else. Eventually, they will pick on the wrong person and get their clocks cleaned. Meanwhile, remember God loves you and from Him comes strength.
2006-12-05 13:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them...that which we concentrate upon in our mind, we manifest. The more you agonize over the situation, the more it exists...even in your own mind.
2006-12-05 13:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take martial arts. Your inner confidence will show and they won't mess with you.
2006-12-05 13:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Punch them in the face!
2006-12-05 13:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I ignore them. Once they realize how futile it is they stop.
2006-12-05 14:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋