2006-12-05 05:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by saba k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At first try to have a conversation with him telling him that you are sorry for what had happened and if it's your fault then do apologise with due respect to his current feelings about this whole situation. Be self efacing. Telling him that even though what he feels for you is not love but atleast he can consider you to be his friend with whom you can share your light feelings(dont get too emotional at this point). Infact you can start talking about things that interested both of you before that has nothing to do with emotions...e.g. talking about how any one of your teacher behaved while taking some particular class at your school or that what music or books that you are reading recently. My point is that while having a conversation ...just carry it forward from one thing to the other and make sure he is also adding his own opinion and also starting to talk about something new....and also that the opinions of you two are matching in a nice and simple way. I think that will do. Have a nice friendship.
2006-12-05 05:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Simplicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do following for 3 days at least if u r serious .
Directly tell him that u love him .and ask him to understand u why u behaved like that . If he understands u , he will be ur frnd again .Resolve things n give commitments.
If u could not talk then before going to sleep lie on bed, relax yrself , count from 100 to 1 n go to ur inner self n visualise him , ask him appologies , and visualise that he has forgiven everything and say him thank U n see urself hugging him , be happy n sleep. U well find relations moving up !
But pls dont PLAY with him Again as u gals are very clever !
2006-12-05 17:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sam003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O my dear, U have lost UR love?Sure it was not real love.U find out, what was the real fact? If U can realise UR mistake , U can find out solution.Self dedication and purity of mind is the basic of True love.Dont worry,U can back again to UR dream......
mohan.G.
2006-12-05 06:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by mohansarovaram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly speaking wt ur doing is not rite. u love her lot i guess and u can never be her friend. a love can never be a friend. u just convince her and get her back if she still ignores u then let her go. cos if ur love is a true one it will return to u and if it doesnot return then leave it cos it was not urs. u will lose the one whom u loved truly and she will lose the one who really loved her.
2006-12-05 06:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by bkj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest with you it depends on the reason you lost him. and the type of guy he is. It's hard to suggest what to do when you have no idea of the circumstances.
2006-12-05 05:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be just his good friend...it's not possible once you cross the line..it would kill you to go from loving him as you Man then to love him only as a friend...I tried to do that with my Ex.it just about killed me..then I told him I can't do it, either you want to try again or I can't see you anymore...so don't torture yourself...if you love him still..just as much as you did when you were together then tell him unless he wants to work out your issues that you can't see him anymore..good luck with whatever you decide dear.
2006-12-05 15:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS BETTER YOU GIVE THE REASON WHY YOU LOST. WE MIGHT BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU BETTER SUGGESTION TO BE WITH HIM/HER
MY GOOD WISHES ARE WITH YOU
BEST OF LUCK
2006-12-05 06:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU GOT TO ASK YOUR SELF WHAT YOU DID
A.) played him
B.) did a bad drug
c.) lied to him for no reason
2006-12-05 05:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by ManImSadINeedAHug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋