ok see i have a boyfriend and he went to the movies and i couldnt go but my best friend went and the next day she tells me that he was flirting w/ another grl and i dont know who to beleve and Bryant (my boyfriend) says to not to beleve Cayse (best friend) but Cayse tells me not to beleve Bryant. Some one plz help me what do i do who should i beleve? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 05:14:45 · 15 answers · asked by Erin B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You weren't there so you have to trust your instinct who would you believe,what would your g/f have to gain if you and your b/f broke up or is she just being a friend,if she decided not to tell you and you found out from some one else,and then you found out she knew and did not tell you how would you react? On the other side what does your b/f have to gain or lose by not telling the truth,think if you where in his position would you have lie to save your relationship,or would you have gone to the movies and not pay attention to the ladies there.
2006-12-05 05:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you new your girlfriend and how good of a friend she has been the focus should be on your friend cayse. because if she is a real good friend to you and has been there long before your boyfriend then I'm sure your friend would not lie to you knowing that your gonna tell him what she said. unless you have reason to believe that she is a liar , i would go with my girlfriend because she's gonna be there long after your fling with your boyfriend. you are young and he is not permanent but friendships start young and last a life time so choose wisely. LOL
2006-12-05 05:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like City Chick said don't believe either of them u don't know. The question to u is why would u let your best friend go to the movies with your man. Haven't u read some of the questions on here about best friends and your man sleeping together.
2006-12-05 05:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with girlfriends that might be jealous and will do anything to make you as miserable as they are...best friend or not. Besides, what is wrong with flirting? Did they exchange numbers? Did they touch each other? What is your gut feeling telling you? Follow that instead and never second guess it.
2006-12-05 05:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by redhotmamagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think of these facts first... How long have you and your boyfriend been together? How long have you and your best friend been friends? Has either one ever lied to you before? Oh and why in the hell would your best friend go to the movies with your boyfriend when you couldn't go? Thats just weired to me...
2006-12-05 05:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by hotma702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe time to clean house and start over.
If they are your true friends, thay would support you and your feelings.
One is playing around on you, yet still keeping you around, in case he needs you as a fall back, the other one is trying to win you over , in hopes of finding some action from you one day.
Beleive me, no matter how much a guy is supposed to be your friend, count on the fact that he wants your body as well
2006-12-05 05:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should believe Bryant. YOur friend might be jealous of you.
Unless she can prove to you, what she says and that she's not the other girl that she claimed he flirted with, there's not reason to believe her.
2006-12-05 05:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have been you i might tend to have self belief my buddy as your boyfriend only informed you when you confronted him. If it werent a huge deal to start with then why didnt he inform you superb after it got here approximately?
2016-10-14 01:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been threw this n im tellin u.don't beleve dat girl cuz if he is flirtin it was wit her.her goin 2 da movies wit ur boo was a bad idea
2006-12-05 05:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by kyrah aka babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that you need to listen to your best friend because she wouldn't tell you something that wasn't really true and your b/f obviously doesn't want you to know that he was hitting on another girl.
2006-12-05 05:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋