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So heres the deal... I'm talking to a guy and I've known this guy since High school... And i always knew hes had a crush on me, but when i was 16 i met this one guy and about a month later I found out they were brothers... So that killed the chance of me ever being with him, but now its 5 or 6 years later and were talking again, but were both over the fact that i used to date his older brother.. And he doesnt seem to mind and I really dont care, but we've never done nothing more than kiss and snuggle, because I dont know how I would feel if we take it farther... He knows I was with his brother and his brother knows now that I'm talking to him... But again it was years ago and His older brother moved out of state with his wife and everythings good with him and I all we are and have been is friends... Should I get serious with this guy? Hes a grate guy and all I do is laugh and have a good time with him... And I know he likes me as much as I like him... Help Me... Please... Thanks...

2006-12-05 05:11:57 · 17 answers · asked by 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

We talked and I asked him if it bugged him that I was with his brother and he told me no it was years ago... So thats a good thing right...

2006-12-05 05:28:01 · update #1

17 answers

well you say that your ex has a wife, that this guy really loves you, he doesnt care that you were with his brother, you love him, the kiss and the snuggle thing just means he respects you, i dont see what the problem is, be happy. i am really touched with this story because it kinda happened to me too i really hope you are happy God bless you if you need a friend you can e- mail me a rocker19girl@yahoo.com

2006-12-05 05:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by cangri girl 2 · 2 0

It sort of gives the brothers something to talk about together with. You! If you get in an arguement with the young one, then he can go to his bro and get an understanding answer because the older bro probably went through the same thing. But if you all do come together... the question of ' who is better in bed' might pop up as a joke. I hope that you understand it was in the past, and you have changed. THe baby bro knows that too. Go for the next level of romantics! Have fun running the bases!

2006-12-05 05:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Brevin 2 · 1 1

Go for it, the past is the past, live here and now and enjoy all the bounty that is available to you. His brother is no longer on the market so doesnt even count to you anymore. Go get him Tiger. You can stop at any time just do what feels good.
If it doesnt work out there is bound to be another guy that doesnt have a brother u used to date in high school.
Use copious amounts of alcohol together and afterwards blame it on the heat of the moment fueled by the booze if it isnt what you were hoping for.

2006-12-05 05:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

Watch the movie, "While You Were Sleeping". :)

If the older brother is married and out of the area, go ahead and pursue it. Just be careful you never voice ANY sort of comparison between the two of them, even if the younger brother challenges you and "who's the better kisser?" or whatever. Just tell him good positive things and don't share anything personal about the brother.

2006-12-05 05:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 1 1

I always say "Listen to your heart" when it comes to relationships. It sounds to me you already have the answer to your own question. Granted it was years ago since you dated his brother, but that doesn't mean people forget about memories. Althought both brothers "say" they don't care, but is it how they really "feel" inside is the mystery. Just imagine you have a little sister and she is now dating one of your ex-boyfriend...how would you feel? If you're comfortable with the answer to that question....I think you'd feel fine dating the younger brother...Good luck

2006-12-05 05:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Devon 1 · 1 1

Looks like somebody decided to read the title and immediately answer without reading the text for maximum points. Not a girl, but I think that it is possible. Many girls affectionately call other guys their brother.

2016-05-22 21:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia 4 · 0 0

go for it. I dated the brother of the man I am engaged to. It was a little awkward at first but it was a long time ago and we all have moved on. What i did was i called the brother I first dated and aked if it would bother him.

I know it sounds mucked up, but hey ya only live once, and ya can't help who you love.

2006-12-05 05:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by krissy 5 · 1 2

So what if you dated his older brother you were just friends and fate has now brought you two together i say go for it it sounds like it was meant to be.

2006-12-05 05:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 1 2

Heck yeah!! go for it..Hard to find good people to form a relationship with these days. He could be "the one"

2006-12-05 05:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Yardie 2 · 1 1

firstly u should deal with whom u love and if u r happy with him then what 2 think more
but still u should talk 2 his brother if he has a problem with ur relationship!!!!!

2006-12-05 05:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by know me better 1 · 1 2

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