My Pakistani friend, he and I are really close. I mean we had sex many times together, and the reason we haven't dated is because he was moving to New York City to work and I'm basically stuck here in New Jersey going to school for something he already mayjored in. I'm in college for graphic design. I'm at Chubb Institute, so it's basically a year program. Anyway, I'm 20, he's 27. He wants me to move with him so we can be together, but I don't want to depend on him, and I do want to finish school. I want my own career. Also, I haven't told him about this Indian guy I met. I met them both online by the way. This guy name is Malik, he's 23. He's actually in love with me, and I am in love with him too. He's not presuring me to move with him. He is taking everything a step at a time. We met once, and are planning to see eachother again. Plus, he's a little younger than my Paki friend Usman. And I do want to get married after I finish school and have kids.
2006-12-05 05:10:48 · 3 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...you need to think about what you really want to accomplish with these people...See who you like better and have a better relationship with...just don't regret it because that's no good...its sounds like you like Malik much more but you really need to take a deeper look inside your heart and discover what you really want...Either way it sounds like you can make a pretty good decision so don't fret... If you want a better solution just wait and see what happens with each one of them...etc.
Good LuCK
2006-12-05 05:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by ChIkaBuEnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go wit malik.cuz first of all hell be on ur level n hes younger.plus malik is not pressurin u n u luv him
2006-12-05 05:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by kyrah aka babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.....?
2006-12-05 05:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by awesome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋