I was curious what people thought of this, having one sex partner your whole life, my girlfriend of three years and I broke up because I felt I needed to go out and experience different girls, she had several partners before me yet I was her first. I love her dearly and thought I was going to end up marrying her but a small voice inside my head everyday reminded me I would never have a chance ever again to go out and meet new girls and see what its like, did I make the right decision? I love her so much, but this burden i carried on my shoulder bothered me everyday and I was afraid it would never go away...I'm only 21 by the way
2006-12-05 05:08:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel this way, then you made the right decision by breaking it off with your gf and going out and having some fun. If you didn't do this, eventually you probably would have cheated on her and ended up destroying her. She may be broken hearted now but she will be OK.
2006-12-05 05:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing for yourself, All that religious garbage is for the birds this is 2006 things have changed go out there and find out what work's best. You are only 21 and have many years before a commitment should be remotely thought of.Good luck and practice safe sex.
2006-12-05 05:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 04:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just too young for a lifetime committment. I had the same problem when I was 19. I got married, but there was always this little part of me that wondered what it was like with other people. It's better to break her heart now, then cheat on her several years down the road. When you meet the right woman, there won't be a doubt in your heart. However, sometimes, you have to ignore the little voice. When I was 22, I met the man for me. Sometimes, I do wonder what sex with other people is like, but the thought of cheating on him just isn't an option, and I quickly dismiss it.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-05 05:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The feeling you have is normal but the truth is if you truly loved her that much you would have been able to sacrafice that feeling for her. Some people don't see it this way but I see true love is pushing past your own wants to be what your partner wants. It takes some sacrafice.
Until you feel that way about about another person I don't think one is ready for marriage. So you probably made the right choice.
2006-12-05 05:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Almack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for you guys to have these feelings, especially at our age. If you guys are meant to be together then you will be. If your feelings bother you that much then maybe you should date other people to find out if she is the one for you. You did the right thing breaking up with her. If you waited any longer you could have hurt her. But think about this, you could have 50 girls that dont mean anything and screw around with or you could be with someone that loves you, cares for you, always there for, and devoted to you. Its up to you. If you feel you need to wander do so, but if you have found the one, then be with her.
2006-12-05 05:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by cutelil_bubble21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the thought of only one person is comforting. no more bar scenes trying to pick up guys, or being sad because i'm home alone on a Saturday night. i get to be with my best friend everyday. but if it's something you feel you need to do, then do it because it's better to get it out of your system now rather than get married and have kids and then cheat. good luck!
2006-12-05 05:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wonderful that you only had one sex partner! It makes it so special. If you love her, you will regret it later, because she will be gone and have moved on.
Have you ever heard of "soul ties".
I regret having other sexual partners and wish I saved it for that special person.
I was in love once too and did the same thing. Its still taking me along time to find a decent person.
If you have a decent person than stay with that person.
You dont want to be 35 years old single but you have slept with 20 or 30 women because you are still trying to find the right one.
2006-12-05 05:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
This almost sounds like something copied from a book.
The say that true love does not come around often. If your desire to copulate with other females before truly committing, then you love yourself more along with your self absorbed ideals. You have an ideal situation, as it seems, and you are throwing it away for what? To experience other girls? The girl you say you love is good to be rid of you.
2006-12-05 05:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by JB 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
At 21 you still have a lot of experimenting to do.
2006-12-05 05:16:30 · answer #10 · answered by mmm_tracey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋