He says that he isn't; that that was just a phase and that he likes a woman, not a man. Should I trust him? I am really confused.
2006-12-05 05:02:13 · 26 answers · asked by wendyann w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he went that far he has gay tendencies, and he's playing the fence, he needs some help. I wouldn't be with him, if I was you
2006-12-05 05:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All I can say is I know plenty woman that have had sex with woman and are not gay or bi-sexual. They just wanted to "experience" something different. I can not speak for your man BUT it does happen.
2006-12-05 13:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. There's no such thing as a straight guy being "bi-curious". A straight guy has NO doubt what he wants.
Besides, oral to a guy is LONG past the "curious" part.
I don't need to put a bullet in my head to know that it's something that I don't want.
2006-12-05 13:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most heterosexual men don't have any kind of sex with other men.
Ask your boyfriend how did these "incidents" happen and when they took place.
I would be very serious about this and until you get the answers you need you should do 2 things.....both of you should get tested & he should wear a condom at all times.
Your health is at stake.
2006-12-05 13:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, it does'nt mean he's gay. If he's attracted to ya, that'd mean he was Bisexual at the most. The rest is a relationship issue, really. The worry over whether or not he's totally faithfull to ya has nothin to do with him being into both genders.
2006-12-08 15:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by rick891us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has gay intentions. How does that make you feel. as a male I could not possibly even imagine giving head to another male. I think he is gay, but is to afraid to admit it.
Ask him and drill the truth out of him.
2006-12-05 13:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldnt even Joke like that.Be careful there And tell him that you want him to be checked out by a Doctor For any Diseases before You go on any farther with Him.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-05 13:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to say this, but I think he is gay. I really don't know of any straight guys who have done things with other men.
2006-12-05 13:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by amybabe29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the important thing to remember is that he's done it more than once. "A couple of men" means he's gay.
Usually people try things once to see if they like it. He's tried it multiple times. 'Nuff said. :D
You should support him in his choice whatever it ends up being.
2006-12-05 13:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by bmusementpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds Bi-sexual. It doesn't mean that you can't trust him, but many Bi-sexuals can be promiscuous because they want to enjoy both sexes. However, you can probably tell if he's cheating if his wiener tastes like poo.
2006-12-05 13:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not gay.
He's honest with you.. very honest.
People go through experimental phases to discover who they are.
He might be liking guys, but now he likes you - so it makes him bi, or straight.
If you would give him a chance, and accept his past, it'll be good.
If you suspect he's gay, then ask him about it. he was honest with you, you can be honest too.
2006-12-05 13:06:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋