this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:(((( what shud i doo pls advice me..!
2006-12-05 04:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by mani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him, and go NO CONTACT.
That's right... no more dates, no more phone conversations, no text messaging, no emails. Zero.
It will be difficult, but he is using you for sex.
Unless you want to be used for sex, then you need to forget about him.
2006-12-05 04:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are really dumb sometimes...but are you really sure that he is really looking for other girls and if he is just leave him alone! A guy like that doesn't desire someone like you! You are not overreacting and you should be proud and honest about what you really want...what if...is always a question you need to ask ur self so try and be true to your heart. Speak to him nicely and converse with him in many levels try and be more open and reconsider what you want. Also think about the word " i like him so much" what does that mean to you? are you really hooked on him or is it just a little game for you...If you really love him...go for it there is nothing wrong with having a relationship because that's the whole purpose of going out with boys to met them...right?
Good LucK
2006-12-05 13:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by ChIkaBuEnA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say as much as you may think you love him . . .this man will be hard to change for he's trying to get what he can from women all around. Believe me when a say there is a man out there don't let this one waste your time. If he is happy and loves you he wouldn't dare to look around for the risk of hurting you. Be strong for there are men that would do anything for a sweet lady.
2006-12-05 13:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by jessbthegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wrong. He's using you. You need to make yourself less available. You are worth more than a "fix" for him until HE gets married. You deserve more than being his "almost" wife! Stop taking this guy's calls and visits. Just say no! Someone more worthy of you will come along eventually...
2006-12-05 12:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry babe you were that piece of convient a*& why buy the cow when he got the milk for free. and with that sweetness, he told you, its all head game. dont confront him, if you still try to pursue him you will find yourself fighting another girl for him and he will sit back and watch. save the tears for you wedding with a REAL man!
2006-12-05 12:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the solution to his boy problems is to leave him alone no phone calls, pure rejections no answering questions about what you know that he is doing nothing just turn very bitter with silence
2006-12-05 12:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get back with him. He is using you and the others. He is not trust-worthy. You will only be setting yourself up for heartbreak if you get involved with him.
2006-12-05 12:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This guy is a total waste of time. You need to confront him IMMEDIATELY. yes you should say wat the hell are u wasting my time for. make it clear to him that he is a scumbag and that he isnt worth dating.
2006-12-05 12:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋