He got mad at me the other day that we went jogging. I couldn't keep up with him, he ran somewhat ahead of me and some guys that passed us whistled at me. I payed no attention to them of course. Later i told him to jog and that i would walk for a while until i catched my breath, cause i feel bad that he doesn't get to run as much as he would like because of me. Then he started acusing me of not making an effort, which annoyed me because i really was, and i told him i was really trying. He turned all mad and left me standing there and went to sit on the sidewalk. I walked over to him and asked him to start jogging with me again, and he replied that we each would jog whenever we wanted to, i said fine and started running. I never left his sight though. Then he was all mad and said that he would never worry about me again cause i don't deserve it. I got mad too cause he was jogging way ahead of me in the first place. I know he hates when i run off, but he was being a jerk about it all...
2006-12-05 04:44:41 · 14 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We had planned to spend the whole day together and he totally blew me off afterwards, even though i was trying to talk to him about it and to get him to tell me why he acted that way in the first place, cause he was saying i was the one that treated him badly, refering to the me running from him after he told me to. He's been more of a jerk ever since, he has said very hurtful things and acting as if he doesn't really care if i'm with him or not, and that i'm the one that screwed up, so it's up to me to fix it. I'm really fed up with this behaviour, because all i've been doing is laying out what happened and how i felt, and he says he won't do the same thing for me. W.T.H?
2006-12-05 04:48:00 · update #1
He sounds like a baby. And a jerk. And manipulative. I think the next time you go for a jog, run Forest RUN... away from him.
2006-12-05 04:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are right. Remember the bf-gf stage of a relationship is when they are the nicest. As time passes they get lazy with the niceness and become more of themselves. If he's this mean already--doesn't look good for you. Sounds like he needs a girl with low self esteem to control. He'll make one out of you if you let him. I've seen other girls turn insecure and weak after staying with mean guys. It seems like some girls feel better about themseves if they can get the approval of an ---hole guy(because it's hard to do). Find a nice guy.
2006-12-05 04:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by jnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you weren't making an effort you wouldn't have even been out there jogging with him, and it is likely that he was jealous over those other guys. Also, if he likes to jog more than you just make special days where you jog together and special days where he jogs by himself.
2006-12-05 04:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's being jealous and possessive. He might of thought you stopped trying to run to get more attention from the guys, and it might have mad him angry. If he's like that now he'll be like that forever unless you talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel. Don't come at him angrily, be respectful not accusatory, and not looking down on him.
2006-12-05 04:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the attention that you got made him very insecure. Insecurity breeds anger, which he in turn directed towards you. Was he right to do this, no, but was it a normal reaction, yes. I would just do my own thing and let him cool his jets a bit. He'll come around. Good luck!
2006-12-05 04:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry honey but that guy is a total jerk and i would just keep o jogging and leave him sitting on the sidewalk alone
2006-12-05 04:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Penny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 04:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that guys need to grow up if gets mad at you for a little thing like that he is a jerk you need to leave him a guy shoudl get mad at you for someting like that he is being worng dont take that crap from him bc that a way he is bringing you down if you let him do that to you he willl do it againe and maybe worse
2006-12-05 04:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...he was being a jerk. He may've been jealous of the guys whistling at you....(not your fault)
He seems like he has a lot of maturing to do and both of you should communicate more!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 04:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Wife~and~Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he over reacted, he really wants to run, you really want to run. run by yourselves now. nobody wont be a jerk and nobody won't be mad and vise verse.
2006-12-05 04:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by rasromalo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋