my son is 16 and he's acting out to my divorce. I love my son I try to talk to him and spend time with him but he just pulls away . my husband is he's step dad but they where very close he can call my ex-husband but he's still mad at him for cheating on me and hitting me and now we are going thru a divorce. My son loves us both but angry at him at the same time! CAN ANYONE HELP ME PLEASE !! My kids are my world :)
2006-12-05 04:44:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my advice for u get divoce from that person and live for ur son
2006-12-05 04:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son is going through the horrors of divorce. His world as he knows it has just blown up and its tough to face. You'll just have to be there for him, comfort him and love him extra during this time. He surely doesn't want you to be with someone that cheats and hits you. Give him time, love and patience and he will see that you had to get out of an abusive situation. I'm sorry for you and for him.
2006-12-05 12:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things are expected in the separation of once a family; be patient and stay put; be supportive to your children especially to your son, just be patient....it'll take time...
2006-12-05 12:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get family counseling and also private counseling for your son. If he will not talk and/ or listen to you, then hopefully he will find someone he can sort out all his issues with.
2006-12-05 12:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by deerogre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong for your son. Try a physcologist. My 7 year old sees one for his anger issues.
2006-12-05 12:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a professional. Don't allow his anger to fester, and you are too close to be able to help. Your son's feelings are very normal and I am sure he will be ok once he sorts through things.
2006-12-05 12:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 17 years old, and I have went through the same thing. you should seek family counseling. it will take some time for him to get over it. good luck! i will pray for ya'll!
2006-12-05 12:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ The-Gretchen ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him into therapy so he can have a neutral person to talk to
2006-12-05 12:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋