I am going through a time where I really badly desire a child, and I am tired of seeing mothers go around and wish their baby was mine, how do I deal with this?
2006-12-05 04:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by Melody 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am not sexually active, I am thirteen.
2006-12-05 04:39:35 · update #1
I know, I should think of the baby first, and I am. Just what should I do till then?
2006-12-05 04:49:25 · update #2
The fact that you added the detail that you are 13 means you do know that you are not ready to have a child. You have years ahead of you to be a parent. Now you should concentrate on being a child. Join a sports team. Take a dance class. Focus on studies. Spend time with your friends. Whatever you do, do NOT have a child right now. You do not have the skills to raise a child, even if physically you are capable of having the baby. You need to think of the baby's needs - not your own "desire" to have a baby.
2006-12-05 04:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are you actively trying to get pregnant right now? If so just relax and keep trying. Dont stress over it becasue it will make it harder to get pregnant. Dont worry most likely one of these days youll have a baby and then youll be wishing to be able to go back and be where you are now lol. Just kidding, but really enjoy these baby free days becasue one day you wont even be able to remember what it was like to be baby free.
2006-12-05 12:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by pixiehopes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you married? If so talk to your spouse. There are different ways of having a child. You could do invitro, you can adopt, you can go to a sperm bank, etc etc. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-05 12:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its time that you have a child. remember you don't have to have a mate to have a child. there are sperm banks. you can adopt or even foster a child. good luck.
2006-12-05 12:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would just give it time it will happen when it is time to but for now have fun until it happens because that time to go out partying and hanging out with friends is over but good luck and keep doing it
2006-12-05 12:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by crystal b 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋