this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:((((
3 options
ignore him, cut contact?
flirt w. his frnds
confront him abt it??
2006-12-05 04:22:44 · 5 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:(((("
I think you have your answer and I am sorry, but you shouldn't let him use you for sex until he finds some lady with more goats. Good luck.
2006-12-05 04:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by RockabillyBanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren’t all three of those options wrong? Cut contact possible but you dong get what you want which is him. Flirt with his friend... that is just for revenge and are you really that stupid that you think that would help?
Confront him about it? That is a possibility but do you think you would do it correctly? Would you get what you want doing that?
How about first figure out what you want... then take a look at why is it that he is doing what he is doing. He is not doing it to hurt you its just pure selfishness. There is nothing here against you but only for him. So what is it that he needs? And what is it that he wants?
Once you figure out those three things: What do you want? What does he need? And what does he want?
Then you will have a better idea on how to act. But probably all three of your first choices are wrong. Or at least partially wrong.
2006-12-05 12:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by elfsareus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first option
2006-12-05 12:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st option!
2006-12-05 12:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by LiNdSaY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and cut contact.
2006-12-05 12:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋