I've done no fault or harm so Why wont they let me see my baby?

Question

I'm a single father of 2 kids that use to be 3 until my ex girl friend left to go back to her husband after he threw her out 2yrs ago after the DNA test said he wasn't the father but know he wants to be dad i cant go to there home to see my baby they ll call the police & arrest me for trespassing i tried to call then text them they had there cop buddy call me saying that im harassing them i filed with the attorney general office but that takes time so i turn to you people of the web they think just because theyre a big wrecker company in waller that they can take my fatherly rights that i raised 4 almost 2yrs just because he now wants to play dad so i ask you please call them or email them at arens wrecker service texas 936-539-3533 and say or text why wont you just let him see his baby and maybe just maybe we can bring a miracle to my family for christmas i pray that people respond because i like to see a miracle glow threw these troubling times god bless you all and merry christmas

Answer 1

I agree that it's totally unfair, but you'd be doing yourself a favour in the long run if you let the attorney general deal with it through the proper channels. It's going to be hard but if you've done nothing to deserve this then you have a good case. Good luck!!

Answer 2

ok you need to get a paternity test if you haven't gotten one yet to prove to the state that you are the father. (if you are not the biological father then you don't have any rights...with out proof you have no rights). Once you have the proof then go down and get your child support going.I take it you don't pay child support because if you did there would already be some sort of visitation set up and if she was to vialate the court order for visitation she could be in major trouble. It's all legal and it's really your responsibliltiy as a father to provide for your children and in providing for your children you are awarded visitation through the court. Believe me I know first hand about all of this. Without papers there is nothing you can do...NOTHING!!! The state never takes the fathers word for it...if you swear to be the father they don't want to hear it with out a test result. If you are not the biological father then there really....LEGALLY...nothing you can do, but pray she changes her mind. You need to get your visitation set up....ASAP and it doesn't take long usually then can start the visitation within a months time once you've proven paternity. Good Luck!!

Answer 3

Become familiar with the forms the county court has available to the public.
Talk to the clerk a lot and try to learn about the system
Try to get an emergency parenting schedule
Go and consult with a lawyer and see your options, even if you won't get a lawyer get the free consultation.
Try to be friendly with the mom and the dad, that's the best way to go.
Make all correspondence in writing (email, letters) and this will be better proof than verbal and log everything!!!

Answer 4

That is really heart breaking you need a lawyer. If you are the father you have every right to your child as she does. If there are no documents stating she has sole custody than by law you two share rights as parents. I know all this cause my husband and I are going through the same thing with his son. I will be praying that things work out for you. Trust in God and he will make a way.

Answer 5

Listen, you need to retain an attorney if the child is yours. Until you file all the appropriate documents and have a temporary custody hearing (as unfair as it is) she doesn't have to let you see the child. If the child is not yours, depending on his/her age, you have no rights. If you raised the child from a really young age and it knows you as 'dad', you may have rights. Remember with rights comes responsibility, i.e. you will have to pay CS in order to get visitation. Be prepared for an uphill battle and good luck!

Answer 6

OK, first question, are you the bio dad? If you are, they cannot deny you visitation to your child unless they can prove you are a risk to him and even then a judge would normally allow supervised visitation. if you arent the bio dad I dont know how much say you have in the issue, but if you were involved for that long, I dont see why she would deny you to be around even if it was just as an uncle or adult freind etc. I really hope you get your wish this christmas! Best wishes.

Answer 7

you have to stop calling or txtin them so much...they can and most likely will file harassment charges or a restraining order on you. the cops can not enforce visitation, even with a court order in place...its still considered a civil matter to them. if there is not a court order in place for visitation....legally there isn't much you can do...no one can enforce anything....its sad but you have to compare it to possession is 9/10 of the law until there is a court order in place

now if there is suspicions of child abuse, by law they HAVE to go check on the kids and if they suspect it as well, then CPS is called and the children are possibly removed....and IF you are the father...then you will have temp custody until CPS or the courts decide otherwise. but you only get temp custody of your kids...not the one(s) that aren't yours.

you need remove the number you posted or you could also get sued for slander in some way...

Answer 8

while i feel for you, i'm not calling anybody. try going through the court system. maybe you can get the right to see them there. you may just have to chalk them up as a loss, though, it will be hard, but you will eventually be okay. who knows, maybe once the kids are grown, they will come looking for you. have a merry christmas anyway.

Answer 9

you need to contact your lawyer and the police if its your child the court can force her to let you see the child or give you the child and if people start calling and herassing them your going to jail for conspiring the idea just so you know just cause others are doing it its because of you that there doing it making it your fault

Answer 10

The number this person has posted is a government office number. Seems like he's jerking people around with his sob story.