2006-12-05 04:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by Minnie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You are not bound by any means to the guy you are with,can dump him immediately and date the person you like and decide further course of action accordingly.
You can do it if you are not fully dependent on the guy you are with.
2006-12-05 04:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him. If he is not nice to you now he will never be nice. It does not matter if his friend likes you or not. If your boyfriend is even mildly abusing you DUMP him.
As far as his friend goes, date him if you want, but with a group kind of situation for a few weeks first. That way it should look like you got together not as soon as you dumped him. And if the two guys still want to be friends it should cause a less of a problem to them.
2006-12-05 12:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only assume that you want him to notice you and treat you right, however its all his friends that are acting cool. Thats probably because you are sorta invading his space. Even though you are just trying to join in, he has already been there. Its an ego thing for males, chances are things will get better with time.
2006-12-05 12:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful in that area. First thing you need to do is dump your man. Second let things cool down with you and your ex. then talk it over with the other guy to make sure he doesn't mind losing a friend. It is a very hard situation dating your ex's friend, if you make that decision beware!!!!
2006-12-05 12:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Aja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first let him know how he is acting is bothering you. Then if there is no change you should be honest and let him know that you don't like how he treats you and you are interested in someone else. I personally think his friend needs to tell him he's interested in you. Just becase they are friends and he may take it better coming from him. Whatever you do don't try to keep it from him
2006-12-05 12:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by camerons_mommy23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the only reason your guy is not nice to you might be that his friend is getting closer to you. That is seriously not tolerable. Please sit with him and have a talk about this. If the reason is same which i mentioned above, then ur guy loves u a lot. If the reason is different go ahead with his friend.......
2006-12-05 12:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by ***RaGhU*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all need something in your life but dont hurt others to make yourself happy. i hear things like this alot. im not trying to seem offensive or like i am taking his side but make sure its not your fault that he seems to be acting mean. and if it is by chance, then you dont really want to be with him probably. in that case, dont waste both of you time and feelings for something that will not be. but what ever you do, do not lie or lead each other on and for blessings sake dont do anything behind his back. be honest always. it may seem hard and painful for some one at first but later atleast everyone has closure. closure is the hardest thing to deal with, you know that burning question we all have about something in our lives atleast once when it comes to our feelings...
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2006-12-05 12:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by yellowishwhiteoppa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you move on. You don't have to live with the friends, you have to live with the guy who is not treating you properly.
There are a lot of others out there that will treat you right. Move on.
2006-12-05 12:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by thunder2sys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes not nice to you, dump him and date one of his nice friends
2006-12-05 12:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by binglejells2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is not treating you nice, then you should leave him. believe me, I found that out the hard way. If you get with his friend, I would advise you to be very careful.
2006-12-05 12:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋