I know moms always say they love their children, but i'm doubting my mothers love for me. lately she has been giving away my stuff to my little brother ( her favorite) as she says. She all the time says she hates me and i dont know what to. She said that if i leave i can never come back...and she doesn't want to keep in contact with me. Should I leave? What should i do?
2006-12-05 04:12:47 · 7 answers · asked by katier16101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
awwwww... i doubt your mom hates u she probley just dosen't know how to express her feelings toward you. No mother could actually hate their child.My mom and big sister used to fight all the time it was just my mom had troble expressing her feelings toward my big sis.
2006-12-05 04:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mom loves you so much; the proof that she's been giving away your stuff to your younger brother is that she loves what you had, those precious things she gave to you first to hand it on to your little brother. Quit your doubts; you love your mom so much too or else you won't be hurting. In fact, your mom is right now insecure that she told you that if you leave you can't come back; because she knows it will happen someday and by this way; she won't be hurting badly if the right time comes. Show your care to your mom and younger brother. You know, the best way to win your mom, is to show your love and care to ur little bros. coz as of this time, he's the apple of her eyes. She turns to him bcoz he is still small and will stay with her for the meantime and children appreciate the love they get from parents and reciprocate it well.
2006-12-05 12:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under 18, you definately SHOULD NOT leave. Stick it out until then. After that, if you feel you could provide for yourself, then go for it. I'm sure she still loves you, she just might not know how to show her love. People say things like "i hate you" when they are angry/frusterated/etc. Doesn't mean it's true. Maybe the two of you need to have a serious one on one talk about the way she makes you feel. (Choose a time when you are both CALM and RELAXED).
Good Luck!
2006-12-05 12:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I really feel your pain! I'm so sorry!! My mom sometimes tells me she hates me but later she apologizes.... Are you telling the whole story or are you leaving important stuff out like that sometimes she apologizes to you or are you just doing this to get attention? Whatever your reason from a kid who has Lot's and Lot's of problems I'm telling you doing it for the attention is not the way to go! But hey if you ever need some more advice or just need a good friend E-Mail me @ dawnika_walker_42@yahoo.com as the bago's say PEACE OUT HOMEY!!! hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
2006-12-05 12:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Donka Doo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say cut it off. I know you love your mom even after all this but you have to do what is healthy for you...and maybe she will realize just how much she hurt you if you turn your back to her. It's hard for me to tell you to do this cause it doesn't seem natural but you can't let people walk all over you if you put up with it it will only get worse.
2006-12-05 12:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what your age is,,,,,, if you are 18,, leave,,,,im sure later she will rethink her position,,,, and if she does, you can decide at that time if you want to start a relationship with her,,,,, i know she is your mother, and all people want/need a relationship with their mother,, but what you have is not healthy,,,,there is no excuse, and i repeat, no excuse, for a parent to tell a child they hate them,,,,, so go, girl
2006-12-05 12:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is calm sit her down and have a talk. Tell her how you feel what makes u feel that away. She'll get it then. Communication is the key.
2006-12-05 12:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋