October he went home for his b-day. He came back and said he bought tix 2 see Deftones. He loves them. I like them too. he said a female friend was cumin from Vegas to c it 2. He met her at a Deftones concert n they keep in touch threw
Myspace. He didn't mention he bought her a tkt. So I assumed she bought her own. He also didn't buy me a tikt. He did ask though if I wanted to come. I asked if I'd be a 3rd wheel. He assured me no. Next day, I agreed. He texted me that it was sold out. So I thought, okay fine. Then I saw a reciept on his desk at his apt and it was for 2 deftone tkts. He NEVER said he bought her 1 and if he bought them in advance, Y not 1 for me? Also he was supposed 2 b taking her sight-seein.He asked if I wanted 2 ***. I had 2 work, but I called at 7pm n he was drunk w/her at a guy pal's pad. He then said she's staying for 2 days w/him n stayin a spare bd. rm. He has 2 roomates, but he never mentioned those sleeping arrangements until that night. What is up?
2006-12-05 04:02:23 · 19 answers · asked by vada 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's soooooooooo cheating on you. Move on. Find a real boyfriend that actually WANTS to spend time with YOU, not some OTHER woman from Vegas...
What happens in Vegas stays in..oh nevermind.
:)
2006-12-05 04:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... guys hate girls who assume all the time. Notice the three letters first in assume. (A s s) That is what we think of when girlies get nervous about cheating. You assume he is, but he's not. He's just gonna have a fun time with an old friend that he knows like the group. He obviously had a great time with her before. Don't worry hun, if he was cheating on you, he wouldn't be with you. If you still are jelous... ask him if you can stay with him while she's sleeping there. If he does say no, or no room... then he probably is cheating on you. Tell him how you feel!!! We obviously dont know the Whole Story! You do!!!
2006-12-05 12:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i see you're not as blind or absent in mind as he'd like to believe you are.....you know the answer, he bought her a concert ticket, not you...thats 1 for cheating, he was drunk with her at some guy's house...thats 2 for cheating, she's staying with him for 2 days....3 for cheating, he has room-mates and a spare bedroom?....4 for cheating, and last i knew it was 3 strikes, you're out....so think about it, 4 points for cheating, 0 points saying otherwise....he's cheating on you, pure and simple. He's a pathetic excuse for a guy if he's doing that, sorry you had to get hurt, but at least now you can move on with life.
2006-12-05 12:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is having a fling with her. He most likely with return to normal when she leaves. Don't fall for this.
Find a man that wants to be with you. He has no excuse for buying her a ticket and not you. He also has no excuse for having her sleep at his place. She knew she was going out of town and should have planned to stay in a hotel.
2006-12-05 12:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe check it out some more before making a harsh decision like just assuming he's cheating on you. maybe be upfront and ask him, you can normally tell by a guy's first reaction to this question if he is cheating or not. don't make any decisions you might regret to late
2006-12-05 12:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by lilypod 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU BETTER DISCUSS ABOUT THE MATTER
with him and love him and in case you are not married you may look somewhere else you have to take a firm decision and be straight forward to him tell you do not like this,all the best.
2006-12-05 12:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by RAJ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is very weird... i would be very cautious,,, i think he might have some kind of arranged relationship for when they meet up for the concerts.... i would be pissed if i were you.... he should have told you way in advance that all of this was going to happen and offered for you to stay with him so you wouldnt think somehting was happening between the 2 of them....
2006-12-05 12:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The writing is on the wall. Yes, he is cheating on you and I think he would prefer you break it off rather then him. Do your self a favor and break it off and find someone who reallley cares
2006-12-05 12:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they all answered you pretty good and i agree that he might be although i don't want to be misjudging him but it is so clear.maybe you have something in you that makes him look to another woman so start from urself anf if you found yourself guilty then you should start repairing urself and win him ack if you love him .don't let her take him from you because you know and love him better.hope you good luck.
2006-12-05 12:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by mony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really need to ask? Tell BF he's a MF and to hit the road. He is sooo screwing around.
2006-12-05 12:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by hoosiergal0946 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋