My gf is very simple, she loves me. From the last 2 year she never complained, she keeps coming by flying 10 hours everymonth twice. I never comitted to her,but the very first meeting I hugged her and kissed her and said I like her.We r Indian and not many gf/bf stuff.But she loves me, I have said in times to look for some one, but again I will call her as if I did a msitake saying so.I am a short temper guy, she can handle me very well.When she comes for 2 days travelling 10 hours,I will have sex with her day n night.Some times she doesnt get wet, she says she is tired by the travel.She always take care of me.Now she is asking for marriage as in India 28 is a big time.But I am not getting the feeling.I asked her to go away,which she can not take it.She is never used to such things.She might commit suicide also.But she is a good girl,she is saying plz dont loose her.I went for the first time to meet her,she took care of me like anything.I enjoyed my kiss there.I am confused,what todo?
2006-12-05 04:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by Sonu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She seems like a great girl, why wouldn't you want to be with her? If you don't want to commit to her, then she doesnt deserve you, so just leave her alone once and for all. If you are going to commit to her, be good to her... she's always good to you!
2006-12-05 04:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have acted immaturely and hurt her. You need to think the situation through and make a firm decision. Get some professional help if your not up to it. If the answer is to break up with her you must be firm and final. You also have an obligation to see that she is protected until she is with someone who will help her. Either way your apology is due.
2006-12-05 12:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa dude!!! are you blind? You won't get this opportunity to be treated and loved like this with the way you treat her!! My advice to you is to stop in your tracks-sit down, & actually think about everything she has done for you.
Every kiss, every touch, every act of kindness, her beauty, intelligence, and strength. If this is not enough to make you feel a twinge of love for her, You need to tell her face-to-face that you don't! But be a friend to her if she can stand it. If she can't, then you are out of the ballpark and you have a problem.
I hate that you let it get that far. You should have told her you weren't ready for someone like her after that 2cnd visit.
2006-12-05 12:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by darkorchid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a nice guy but you need to get out. If you're heart is not in it marriage is a mistake. Think of it in the longer term - do you want to deny yourself future happiness? Good luck to you.
2006-12-05 12:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dave..... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like her and she wants to marry you...marry her...i dont know...im sure your culture is different than ours, but if a girl is willing to travel 10 hours to see you twice and wants to marry you, its gotta mean something, unless she is depressed with her life and she see's you as a way out.
oh, and if a girl is not wet, you should not have sex with her....it hurts girls to have sex when they are dry....she probably just doesnt tell you because she is afraid.
2006-12-05 12:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lek 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she loves you. Sounds like she'd be a good wife for you. If you're holding out for something better, you are being selfish. Marry her.
2006-12-05 12:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by davidosterberg1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I REALLY CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT THE HELL YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT YOU ARE GOING BACK AND FORTH IF YOU DON'T LOVE HER STOP CALLING HER.
2006-12-05 12:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by shannon c 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
drop her quick and find you someone close by
2006-12-05 12:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋