Seen this one girl at work, and we would say hi and smile, but never really talked. Then one day were on break and spark a little conversation, and after that she made a big effort to acknowledge me. So a few days after I'm chatting with another worker, and she just comes over and starts talking with us. So I was about to leave, but decided to come back, and I ran just into her. We start talking and her body signs seems nervous (fiddling with rings and what not), but she gets called away, I was going to ask for her number, but she was way too busy. Then all of a sudden the one employee I was talking to comes back with her number for me. Yes I know this is good, but only thing is I think she still has a b/f, and when I called her I was asking about where she lived and she said something about she lived with her b/f but then moved for college, but nothing saying they broke up, and a internet social site says she is single, but I have my doubts. Should I pursue or am I a friend?
2006-12-05 03:56:27 · 3 answers · asked by winnabagosb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to clarify, she doesn't live with her b/f, she said she lived here and there, and with her b/f for a long time, but now moved for school.
Was gonna ask her to do something when I called, but it was hard to bring it up, but she said if she was going to do something she would call me to let me know.
I know its a good sign, and I don't think she would go trouble, but she is new to the area, and may be just looking for friends, but after like one talking and getting the number and not from her, but from her if you know what I'm saying.
Other thing that scares me is she wears rings on her taken fingers, which is sometimes a ploy to scare off guys, but also sometimes mean they have commitment.
One last thing, I did overhear a convo where she was talking about her b/f and her but then corrected herself saying her ex, so thats why I don't think she does, but maybe??? This wasn't directed at me just people she was around, about two weeks prior to these events.
2006-12-05 03:57:10 · update #1
You might as well try and go for it. If she still wants to be with her boyfriend then just stay friends, find out first though whether or not she is or isn't available.
2006-12-05 04:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by kms010494 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say at this point you are putting together alot of bits and pieces of conversations that are like a puzzle that just don't fit (yet). If you are really interested- give her the benefit of the doubt-that she is newly unattached from the old B/F, and call her. You can keep it casual at first- maybe lunch and a movie, and just talk----- you can come right out and ask her I guess, if she's seeing anyone else---- but as long as she isn't living with someone, it may just be a casual, non-exclusive relationship.
2006-12-05 12:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats way to much to read so i am gong to tell you what i think... if she does have a bf i would act like i had no idea.... you might be with another mans girl but its not your fault you didnt know..... she would be the one cheating.... i wouldbe more than friends.... she gave someone her number to give to you, go for it....
2006-12-05 12:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋