So a day ago I ask her if she like me really unexpectly in my room when all my other friends left. She said " I think your really cute but I dont know who you are because your sometimes so quite" I dont know what to do. Ive knowen her for 2-5 months and we just been friends. But last saturday she had my heart pumping like crazy. She was sitting my lap wherever I sat, following me sometimes, wanting to dance with me. And on the ride home from the party she turn around from the front of the truck and put her hand over and I grab it her hand and started holding her hand and she didnt pull away but just look at my eyes and I did to. I cant get her off my mind. I know by next friday if I goto a party with her or something I'm going to hook up with her for sure. But I want more then a one night stand with her. But it seems like all she wants from me is sex. Which is good I'm not arguring about that but I rather have love than sex so what should I say to her?
2006-12-05 03:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my one idea was. If I hook up with her this weekend I'm going to ask if she wants this to go anywhere or just remain **** buddies...
2006-12-05 03:52:21 · update #1
Don't you dare take advantage of this girl.
It sounds to me like she's trying to get your attention, possibly the only way that she knows how. Try being honest with her, letting her know what you think of her and where you stand, and what you want in a relationship. See if it really matches up with what she's looking for.
2006-12-05 03:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really love this girl by the way that you talk about her, she sounds like the shy type, maybe she is but she can get over that with time, One night stands are like meeting someone time and forgetting they exist, but if you tell her you really like her and why maybe she might consider on taking it to the next level if she is ready, but only that, I am sure you are willing to date at any moment, but be patient with her, if she is already holding hand with you and going to parties with you or other hang out spots that is definately the start of something, Telling her that you want more then a sexual relationship and why might help her to understand where you are coming from, I am sure you not complaining about what she does for you anyway, but sometimes you have to get serious if you want a serious relationship. If she can't take you seriously then you do what you have to, if after you have give her a chance to figure out whether or not she wants to take it to the next level. If still don't get an answer then it is up to you what you do next.
2006-12-05 04:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play it cool hotshot....no never ask is she want to be **** buddies... and you never know if you are goingto be able to hook up with a girl,, the more you expect it, it wont happen.... you dont know if that is what she wants,,, she said sahe doesnt know youso she probly isnt going to have sex with you until she does.... and just cuz she wanted to be close doesnt mean she just wants to have sex.... it seems from the way you are alking about it you have never had sex before.... she said she didnt know you so maybe she was just trying to get an idea of what you were like in those situations.....
2006-12-05 03:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear bro that girl is judging you taht either you are with her to be in her panties or in her heart
just do not look at her boobs and do not think about sex
try to blow off before going near her
remember she says some times you are quite try to talk her out
and when she will be ready her eyes will tell you
best of luck
2006-12-05 03:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by hassan_javied 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her what kind of relationship she's looking for. Tell her how you feel if she just wants to be your **** buddy and your fine with that then ok. From what you've written it seems like she really likes you and you really like her.
2006-12-07 10:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by Angel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just ask her if shes looking for a one night stand or something more stay strong on having something more other wise letter her go shes not the one... i hope everything goes well for u.......i really hope u get Ur wish come true:)good luck
2006-12-05 04:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by DLF'N'GRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes thats a good idea. if you two hook up then just talk to her about it. but dont say **** buddie
2006-12-05 03:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude that is way to much to read at this time of day. If you dig her then go for it, if not, do it anyway it might be fun. Peace
2006-12-05 03:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start to open up to her and you could also keep her as a **** buddie
2006-12-05 03:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say anything or push anything, sounds like things are already flowing pretty good, i wouldnt interefere with it and see what happens naturally
2006-12-05 03:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋