this make me a s lut or just a curios person
2006-12-05 03:49:10 · 19 answers · asked by yup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also let him finger me in the back and went down on him
2006-12-05 03:51:23 · update #1
Having sex the first night makes you easy, not a slu t. Being a slu t is about HOW MANY you have slept with in a Very short time frame... example: Sleeping with 10 guys in 1 month=slu t!
2006-12-05 03:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One good thing about what you did is it allows you to separate sexual feelings from emotional feelings for him. Now you ought to be able to see him without thinking of him sexually.
There are people that get attracted to each other physically first and then emotionally. And then there are others that take quite the other path - staring emotionally connecting and then consider the physical aspects of a relationship. You guys started at the physical end.
Since it was consentual and he was into it as much as you have, don't blame yourself for it. That's behind you now. Just move on and make a fair assessment of where you guys are emotionally or otherwise.
2006-12-05 11:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that does not make you a $lut at all. You seem like a normal, healthy and curious woman........especially as you let him finger your a**!!
In fact, can I have you phone number? ha ha
2006-12-05 11:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does "lay" mean just lying on the grass or sex? If it's sex I think that you are moving way to fast with this guy and you and him should talk and maybe take things slower. If this were my situation I would be very scared. What if he an S.T.D.? I don't you would want that. I would say be careful!
2006-12-05 11:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no real definitions of slut or easy...they are all someone's opinion and are going to vary widely.
If it was your decision and the sex was consensual and you are of age, then you only have yourself to deal with. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
2006-12-05 11:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slu t you may not be, you seem like a female that did not want to disappoint the partner you were with. you must have not been out lately, it is 2006, you can do what you want and not feel ashamed of it. men have been doing it for years and they get cool names like pimp or stallion, we do it and get names like, slu t and hoes... not fair, next time make him go down on you.
2006-12-05 11:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by crazeebitch2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it just make you seem like a real easy person maybe you should have waited unless it was worth it and if no iam sorry for you so no not a slut.
2006-12-05 11:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by fenkell_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that possible he fingered your ***? Ok, No i don't think it makes you a slut, was he hot?
2006-12-05 11:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nebel6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lady who needed it...It happens!
2006-12-05 11:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by jab92593 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes you....you. Don't let society put labels on you hun.
2006-12-05 11:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋