i have been asking questions about problems with my ex g/f
you no will i get her back etc; when i no deep down that i will not and i am moving on but slowley i came across this quote:
"she would'nt have completely fallen out of love with you they never do!''not after such a long relationship'' is this true if so break ups are weird
my g/f broke up with me and we did it on good terms and want to stay friends
any comments about this!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 03:47:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless the break up was a mutual thing, staying friends is pretty difficult because I person might still have feelings for the other. After a long relationship, you don't necessarily "fall out of love", you might still love the person, just not in the same "romantic" way. You might care for them and love them as a person, but not as a "lover".
Good luck
2006-12-05 03:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by jennytkd13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not "get" her to confide in you. She is going to open up if she feels comfortable - however sounds to me like you guys have some problems which are complicating your relationship. The recommendation i'd provide is - do not be 1) too determined, or 2) too pushy. Simply be your self, have a just right time along with her - but do not be all over her whatsoever. Good enough, she has this loopy thought that you simply handiest need her for intercourse; good, don't convey up intercourse in any respect, hold your arms to your self, and benefit from the conversation. I am now not really sure what her difficulty is - i do not get it how can a girl be with any one for 2 years, and be satisfied that this character is only with her because of intercourse; that is just foolish. It sounds to me like she, herself, does not recognize what she wants - and it can be variety of a damaging hindrance for you, as you could get your coronary heart damaged very with no trouble. Simply be careful, adequate. Excellent luck.
2016-08-10 00:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to still love someone, but not be IN LOVE with them. You should be in love with someone that you're in a relationship with. Once people fall out of the state of being in love, it's rare that they will feel those feelings again.
I've been friends with most of my ex's and still do love some of them as friends, but if I was in love with them, I would still want to be with them in a relationship. It's hard accepting the difference, but it signifies a lot.
Just keep getting over her and moving on...dwelling on what used to be isn't going to get you anywhere!
2006-12-05 03:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How very sad - you 'are' being really brave about it and sound like a sensitive person. I still love my boyfriend of 25 years ago - but we have both moved on. We have some happy memories which still make me smile - but life is full of chapters which open and close.
There are more exciting chapters to come.... :)
2006-12-05 03:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has ever really lost love right after they beak up. There's a Little something there you still have a good chance don't give up. Just try to be her Friend for now.
2006-12-05 03:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look playa
Women in general break up with guys for two reasons. 1. Guy too nise and needy, or 2 they found a better suiter. If she is already dating, it 2. If not you need to grab your balls be a man and move on. Give yourself and this poor girl a break. There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
Its not your calling in life to be a door mat, and it is not her calling in life to be your g/f. Good luck buddy.
2006-12-05 03:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to stay away. People who have broken up are usually better off if they stay away and don't communicate with each other. If you try to stay friends, she may interpret it as trying to get back togethor or worse stalking her. You say you are not moving on, start asking other girls out. The rule about getting back togethor is to leave it alone.
2006-12-05 03:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hu eva sent you that is completely wrong. you want me 2 be totally honest? i was so in love once. wen we split (which wasnt even on gud terms so u wer luky!) i was heart broken i relli was. and i cried 4 ages and ages. i was so so so upset. i thought i wud neva get ova him. but i did. im sorry to say this but wen someone is in love and you break up-you DO get ova them. however long it takes. i think you shud carry on muving on. i think ur duin relli well by the sounds of it. plz ignore this person. sum ppl just lyk 2 come on here and twist things to confuse u or just 2 literally get the extra 2 pts. muve on, ull find sum1 else, as good as or even better. i have and we are so inlove once agen! :):)
gud luk xxxxxxxxx
2006-12-05 03:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by LifeLiveLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex wanted to stay friend.he was cheating on me and we had two kid together.he made a big fuss about being friends for the kids he drives me mad if it were not for the kid i would tell him to get lost he go on like we are best friend but i can not stand him. move on i don't think people who have bee out with each other make good friends
2006-12-05 04:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After dating someone for sooo long, you don't loose that love...I dated this guy for 4 years and messed around with him for 2 more year...It's been like 10 years now and I still have love for him...It will hurt me if I see him with his family and I know it will hurt him if he sees me with mine...
2006-12-05 03:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋