OK I met this really great guy & we've been talking for about a month & in that month he kept asking to be my boyfriend & it drove him nuts that I just wouldnt say yes well after almost a month I agreed & I was really happy he treated me like gold & I loved him to death. well one night I hung out w/some friends & I got high (weed, nothing intense) NOW this isnt my thing! I have tryed it before but I am not the druggy type!! well I tell my b/f about it & he just flips out & tells me look i dont think you are the one for me & breaks up w/ me now we have been only going out Offically for a week & now he does this! we broke up Sat. morning & he told me he needs some space well I begged him to give me another chance & that I wasnt this way well I stoped talking to him but then he will send me txt msgs or msgs on myspace and ask me how I am and if I am ok he hasnt asked for his things back & he still has mine but its been days! WHAT DO I DO ! im afraid he is leading me on!!!
2006-12-05 03:46:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it sounds like waiting almost a month wasn't long enough to find out he was a control freak. Your right he is punishing you, its a control tactic. Don't fall for it, give him his walking papers. Good luck.
2006-12-05 03:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a major problem with your drug use, but does still have feelings for you. Chances are, he is very confused and probably not sure himself whether or not he should take you back. Give him time; stay on friendly terms, and when things have cooled off talk to him about what happened, why you did it, and why he reacted the way that he did.
2006-12-05 03:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK for starters ya should never have to beg anyone ... ever!! Be who you are and don't ever give up on that. It will bite you later and you will forever regret it. Don't ever expect anyone to change for you either. It just won't work out. Bottom line is if he cannot be accepting and forgiving unconditionally .. let it be! Don't beat a dead horse. Be true to yourself... the right person will come along!
2006-12-05 03:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by wolfeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared him...he doesn't want a druggie g/f, but he doesn't want to break up with him. You really have to just ride this out. Tell him that you'll wait for him to get over this and come back and in the meantime don't screw up again. And don't screw up if/when he comes back.
Hope it works out...and I hate to be pessimistic, but teen relationships rarely, if ever, work out forever. But have fun while you can.
2006-12-05 03:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by mld122979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k so if you just screwed up once then he needs to just let it go and move on and try to get pass it. Dont let him hold you back and keep you from doing what you want to do.And if you think hes leading you on then you need to tell him straight up that you dont like it!Dont let him know that you still have feelings for him!
2006-12-05 03:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy did that to me....he used the weed thing as an excuse to break up with you....i don't know if this is the same with you but i told my guy i wouldnt date him for like a month, and he kept trying and trying and tryin and finally i was like yeah...ill be your gf, and than i slept with him...than he gave me some bullshit excuse that he heard i got with one of his friends when he knew i didnt and broke up with me for that, but than he used to call me all the time anyway, and ask me what i was doing, and called buddy....and than sometimes he would be like "i miss you" "i love you" "i wish we never broke up" blah blah blah and than id talk to him again and than he would dissappear again, so than i would call him sometimes to see what he was doing or to hang out and would tell all his friends i was crazy......i would be carefull with this guy....he's ****** with your head. I let my ex **** with my head on and off for almost a year....get out while you still can....give his shitt back and don't talk to him anymore.
2006-12-05 03:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you won't have the ability to. till she left bruises, this is criminal in the U. S., as long by way of fact the newborn isn't harmed and he or she had a reason to discipline. Heck, 22 states nevertheless have corporal punishment in colleges. Now, in case you may tutor she harmed your daughter bodily, then particular. i'm no longer a spanker, yet i might if my newborn grow to be suspended. i think of i might bust their butt and that i do no longer even have self belief in spanking. think of approximately it, do you p.c. your newborn getting kicked out of school? appears like your ex spouse has balls to do what's stable. I in no way had to spank my childrens by way of fact they in no way have been given suspended or have been unruly in college. I probable might have flipped a lid. cool down. it particularly is in comparison to you probably did it. If a male did that to her, it may well be diverse than her mom doing it. they're going to make up and your daughter maximum probable will enhance up and found out somebody cared to reign her in. I assure which you will only make enemies of your daughter and her dating along with her mom. A daughter will part with mom. be careful what you prefer for. i'd desire to try this to my daughter and he or she'd part with me against her father. Your daughter is likewise enjoying one parent against yet another. do no longer fall for it... you will only lose in the tip.
2016-10-14 01:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not leading you on. you shouldn't have done that. I'd be pissed as hell if my girl went out and got drunk or smoked weed. wtf were u thinkin? soo many girls get taken advantage of when they r high or drunk. of course he is pissed at you. give him some space and don't bug him for a while or you will only make things worse. he treated u like a god and obviously respected u, and u kinda took a piss on that by ***** with your body.
2006-12-05 03:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience.
2006-12-05 03:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the days of our lives.
2006-12-05 03:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋