my mom and i arent speaking and i just got engaged she wants nothing to do with me or my wedding what should i do ?
2006-12-05 03:40:36 · 7 answers · asked by jackiesmommy316 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm not sure exactly what your questions is, but if your mom and you aren't talking, you should try to work it out. If you can't then get a close friend (your maid of honor) or someone else to help you plan the wedding and all the parties.
if you want the other members of the family involved ask them. Even if you aren't talking to your mom, invite her to the wedding and give her chances to be involved. At least that way later on if you still aren't talking at least you can say you tried. Plus she can't say that you didn't give her the opportunity to come to the wedding.
Moral of this...be the better person and TRY to work things out or at least give the choice to come and/or be involved.
2006-12-05 03:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You realize, there is extra worried right here than an engagement occasion. I agree, identical therapy might propose you get a occasion too. But I'm guessing your little sister will get exact therapy traditionally. Look, earlier than you make a decision to rock the boat over this, consider approximately the viable penalties. If you drag all this into the sunshine, you may also discover that you simply and your loved ones do not get alongside for a whilst. Your mother and father will resent the implication, even though it is precise. Your sister will consider you are simply being petty, she's most probably ignorant of the reality. So, is that this occasion valued at the drama? Up to you. Now, if I'm method off base right here I'm sorry. If that is the primary time your mother and father were unfair, then ask your mother and father. And do not count on it is not the financial system. It's viable that the brand new apartment has rate them greater than they anticipated, however they do not desire to confess it.
2016-09-03 12:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sad. Perhaps there is some reason she is against this marriage. Try asking her to lunch to discuss the issues. Let her know that you love and respect her, no matter how it all turns out. However, it is considered to be in poor taste to host a party in your own honor. So, you may have to forgo the engagement party unless the groom's parents, or some other close friend or relative, would like to host. Sorry for your troubles. Hope you can work it out with your mom.
2006-12-05 11:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by weddingqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to fix the problem between you & your mom! Secondly, if you have a maid of honor, she is suppose to be like your right hand man(woman..lol), she should be able to help you plan your engagement party! Again, fix that problem between you & your mom! When your getting married you surely want your MOM there!
2006-12-07 05:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by tawannajones2217@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your engagement is a way to fix things with your mother. Not really sure from your post what's going on with your mother or what you're asking.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 04:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say how old you were .Plan your party but still make sure you invite your mother you only have one mother when she is gone you will truly miss her.Don't say anything that you may regret.Life is to short.If you invite her and she doesn't show up at least you did the proper thing by inviting her.
2006-12-05 03:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a planner they can help with all the planning and they can inclued your mum awell with out you talking and by time the party come round you will be talking the same with the wedding they are good when it comes to problems with parents
2006-12-09 02:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by carol i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋