The guy I'm seeing is a good deal older than me (more than 20 years). What do you think of that. And I do enjoy being with him.
2006-12-05 03:34:52 · 28 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i was 17 i was dateing a guy who was 40 and i loved him dearly i have a child by him the best thing that ever happened to me, i went on to marry someone else who killed his self and left me to raise my other two children by him and they are the best to but now i am with a guy who is alot younger than me but we get along good age is just a factor a number it is the maturity that counts.....the best music played on the oldest violin .........most favorite pair of jeans is the oldest pair in the closet......if you like him then go for it .this is your life and you live with the decisions you make not me or anyone else
2006-12-05 03:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_castle2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you really like him for him and not for something like money then go for it!! Age is just a number anyway. If you consider yourself mature for your age and you are a normal human being then of course you will be attracted to older men. Good luck, hope it all works out!! and don't listen to what people have to say when they are being critical, they are just jealous!
2006-12-05 11:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by xocharlixo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.. if you're 15 and he's 35, then you've got some serious problems.. but if you're 35 and he's 55, it's not that big of a deal.. 20 years is kind of a lot though regardless.. but if you really love each other, it shouldn't matter..
2006-12-05 11:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends a lot on how old YOU are. Chances are, if you're under 25 or 30, it may not be a good idea. He could be using you and taking advantage of your youth and/or ignorance.
2006-12-05 11:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have no problem its alright, dont listen to what others say, age is not a problem if you do not make it one...but remember later in life its going to be harder on you because you will be alot younger, but besides that have fun, and go for it ^_^
2006-12-05 11:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to each their own. My dad is nearing 70 and his wife is nearing 40. They get along well since my dad is so young at heart and gets around really good. They have alot of fun together. He told me that women his own age dont like to go and do things anymore. So he dates younger women.
2006-12-05 11:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100
2006-12-05 11:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should continue going for the gusto. Do you remember that beer commercial? Age differences are only in the mind of the sociologically inept people. You go till you can't go anymore.
2006-12-05 11:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not...age is not just a physical thing any more. Lots of people take excellent care of themselves well into their 50's. and 60's and 70's
2006-12-05 11:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy dont worry about it my girlfriend is 12 years older than me she 54 no big deal. good luck!
2006-12-05 11:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mitch E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋