if a guy is chasing you and wants to sleep with you, then obviously he finds you sexually attractive otherwise why chase after you?yes?
so, how do you know, that you aint on his "to do list" or are a "trophy" to him?
even if you havent slept with him and hes still chasing you, how can you be sure that he wants more than sex?
what makes a guy "stick around"??
if he finds you attractive and you have alot in common are you still at risk of being a "trophy"?
2006-12-05 03:34:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have sex with him- if he stick around, he wants more than sex. A trophy wife is another term for gold digger.
2006-12-05 03:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, you're always at risk of being a trophy or a one off shag, whether you're a man or a woman.
Sometimes you meet someone and they seem really great. You have sex with them and they're still really great. Then, a few weeks later, suddenly they don't seem so great for whatever reason and you finish with them. It happens. Nothing sinister about it, it's just how people are.
A kid gets a new toy for Christmas that he's been wanting for ages, at least since the summer. He plays with it for a couple of days and then doesn't bother with it ever again. Another toy, he still plays with a year later.
It's just human nature. Some things work out, some things don't.
2006-12-05 04:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're always at risk of this unfortunately. Sometimes guys pull out all the stops and are on their best behaviours until you sleep with them... then it can all change. Sometimes they are on their best behaviour and pull out all the stops to get you to feel the same way about them as they do about you. Yes they want to sleep with you but they also want more. SO what I'm trying to sa is, you can never really know. There is always that risk. Hey, we're not mind readers now are we! They thing to do is, work out how you're feeling towards this guy. Do you like him? Don't rush into anything but at the same time don't be afraid to start something.
2006-12-05 03:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man can be proud to be with a beautiful woman and she can still not be considered a trophy, but only if he values her for more than just her good looks and sex.
If you share lots of interests, and enjoy them together and he respects something else about you like say your ability to cook, your education, your extensive knowledge of literature..... whatever then you are OK.
He needs to see you as a whole person, with hopes, dreams, talents, insecurities and problems, then you are not just a trophy.
2006-12-05 03:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by SmartBlonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Generally yes, you are correct. exception: a true player doesn't care about anything or anyone, it's truly all about the sex. In fact, normally the person isn't so attractive and that's intentional; they are more vulnerable.
2) you don't know until you have spent some time with him.
- don't commit emotionally until you know you can trust him.
3) NO - more than sex
4) Yes - at risk
2006-12-05 03:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly you cant be sure as blokes will tell a whole manner of BS to get you into bed.
thats the joy of the dating game.
guys stick around for different reasons.... mostly coz they like you.
however some do it for the following reasons;
some for comfort
some till something better comes along
some for the material things...
yeah you can still be percieved as a trophy but dont we all do that to a certain degree?
no one wants a minger do they?
2006-12-05 03:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋