Hey, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years on and off and I found out he has a 3 year old daughter. He has been keeping a secret from me...what should I do. I just found out 4 days ago and he asked me to marry him!! Help!
2006-12-05 03:28:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhm dump him!
2006-12-05 03:34:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Long As It Was During An Off Time And He Didn't Cheat On You I Would Accept Her And Move Forward With Your Relationship, Granted He Lied For 3 Years But That Is Kinda Something Hard To Tell Someone.
If He Cheated I Don't Know If I Would Be Able To Move Forward with This Person.
If You Love Him You Will Accept His Daughter And Love Her As If She Was Your Own.
2006-12-05 11:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Paradise * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ut oh!
Now you really have to do some soul searching. Your bf is a cheater, and once a cheater always a cheater. Also, there is now a child involved, and like it or not, this child will be a part of your lives forever. Is that what you want?
I suggest a "break" so that you have time to sort things out on your own.
2006-12-05 11:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a long time...were you still with him when this happened? Imagine what else he could've been hiding for 5 years, or worse for your whole life if you get married. Trust is the foundation to a good relationship.
2006-12-05 11:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Chicana_Eyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, what else is he hiding?
Did he pop the question because he thought you were going to dump him?
Too much drama for me!
2006-12-05 11:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont marry him. Talk it thru....maybe you can work it out. Maybe it happened when ya'll where broken up.
2006-12-05 11:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he doesn't have anymore children out there... i would investigate further... before going forward or dump him and move on with someone who doesn't lie
2006-12-05 11:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him 2 **** off with himself...relationships r based on trust n he is not trust worthy
2006-12-05 11:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really sad but if u love him stay wit him
2006-12-05 11:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by lostgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..you know the answer.
2006-12-05 11:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋