I have problems at home with my parents and i can't take it and i love my man to the fullest what do you think i should do?
2006-12-05 03:15:50 · 16 answers · asked by bonitachikitalolita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. If you have problems at home, get your own apartment. Don't use him as your escape hatch.
2006-12-05 03:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay at home and try to work your problem out,remember it's your b/f home he could tell you to leave or put you out then where would you go,it takes More than 8 month to really know some one.
2006-12-05 03:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, is it really that bad?!? Well before u make ur decision think about all the good times u had w/ ur parents. if u can think of a few good moments then delay the move and try to work it out, but if you can't and there's no hope in making the situation better than move out.
2006-12-05 03:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Curious G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having problems at home, either resolve them or move out on your own. Moving in with a boyfriend reduces your chances of future happiness and can result in any number of further problems to complicate your life. Recent studies indicate that the incidence of divorce are 50% greater among couples who cohabited prior to marriage. So, if you are contemplating a future with this man, don't move in with him.
The lessons you learn by living on your own will help you cope with the ups and downs of family life in the future and will help you by empowering you to handle life.
2006-12-05 03:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Suzianne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you would be moving for the wrong reasons, work it out with your parents, continue to date your man. You have'nt known him long enough to move in with him. Have you done a background check on him? If you are living at home how old are you?
2006-12-05 03:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you need to move then you shouldn't move in with any one.you should move on your own.living with someone because you're avoiding home issues won't really help your situation for you'll be at the mercy of someone who can throw you out at any time, that's not a good situation. Try to find a place you can afford on your own and you will feel more secure.
2006-12-05 03:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 'no'.
Move out of your parent's house by all means, but go share with friends first. It's very tempting, but it's better not to become too dependent on your boyfrend so soon after leaving home.
2006-12-05 03:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to put up with your parents for now, because you really never know how your man would be if you lived with him. You should continue to learn more about him for a while. I get pissed off at my parents, but for now I am just going to have to live with it.
2006-12-05 03:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a big step to move in together -- in not saying dont do it just dont do it for the wrong reasons
are you prepared for the changes? -- its the little things that can kill a relationship --- does he leave his towels on the bathroom floor --- does he clean up after himself --- what habits does he have that will make you crazy and what habits do you have that will make him crazy
2006-12-05 03:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get your own apartment and gain some personal independence.
2006-12-05 03:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋