My gf loves me a lot and she does everything I say, everything I ask her to do(2yrs relation). She flies twice every month for 10 hours to meet me. She (28)is not a girl who wil have many bf, I am her first relation. I had previous relationship but could not commit because of personal propblems. This girl is not very b'ful, she is a avg smart imtelligent girl though. We do have physical relationship. But I have never comitted her. I have asked her to find some one better or keep her options open. But the next day I have only called her and made her feel like as if I have done a mistake saying that. She had never been able to come out. smtimes I really like to be with her. I called her to meet me. But now I have told her I was forced to meet you. I am not happy with you. She is completely broken up and she was crying. She said she wants my happiness and she loves me so much. I am not able to think. Things bother me,very lil facial hair,wheatish col,help.I want her to be happy. Plz help
2006-12-05 03:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by Sonu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do sex with her and squzee her breast
2006-12-05 03:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to just be friends and take thing slowly. Emotions do tend to take over and shadow what is real. Who knows possibly in time things may work out. Have compassion in dealing with her and think of how you would like to be treated. Looks are not everything but neither one of you should settle. Be true to what you want and have acceptance in yourself. Some things you can change some you cannot. Just be yourself and follow your heart.
2006-12-05 11:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by wolfeex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems either you feel sorry for her or you love the girl. Confusing ;o( You say on one hand you love being with her then on the other you tell her to find someone else. Commitment problems hm? By what you say she goes out of her way for you and you don't seem to feel grateful for this. Your probably right though, she should find someone better who will appreciate all she does for him ;o)
2006-12-05 11:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having sex with someone you dont love? I feel sorry for her. Stop playing head games with her and tell her how you really feel. And dont call her the next day and tell her it was a mistake. All you are doing is hurting her feelings more and more everyday.
2006-12-05 11:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mystie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you two need time apart. You have to figure out where you're coming from and where you're going. When you separate, you need to let her know that she is free to see other people and that you have to sort things out. You also need to let her know that you might never get back together again.
2006-12-05 11:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by gabrielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her, and break ties. This does not sound like a healthy relationship, and you both would be better off without each other.
2006-12-05 11:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to marry u. or if u r no ready just get engage and marry her when u ready.
2006-12-05 11:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋