2006-12-05 03:06:45 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Alot of men go through denial, especially if they are young. The only thing you can do is wait until the baby is born and get a DNA test to prove he is in fact the father. I know that this situation is a depressing one. Just try not to stress too much as this is not good for the baby. Maybe this is a sign that this man isnt right for you. Just think of all the other people in your life who can help you with the baby and be your support system like your parents, siblings, friends. Single mothers make it all the time and if this man isnt ready for your baby, he is irresponsible and immature and you are more then likely better off without him. Just make sure you sue him for child support. Good Luck.
2006-12-05 03:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test. And you better do it when the baby is born. Because no matter what anyone says it will be worth your while. If he won't take the test you can go through Family and Children service and they will pay for a test. Because if he decides to no claim he's the father you still deserve child support. And you need this in order to recieve help.
2006-12-05 03:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens?
1. You realize that he doesn't want to be a father and that if you have the child, you'll be raising it without him.
2. You realize that you'll have to take a paternity test to prove it.
3. You realize that the state will probably be suing him for child support because he won't want to pay it voluntarily, regardless of the paternity test.
2006-12-05 03:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you wait for your baby to be born and get a paternity test done. Talk to your local Division of Family Services. Most of the time you can get it done for free. If he's the father? Then it's time for child support.
2006-12-05 03:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him take the DNA test. That will let him know for sure he's the dad.
2006-12-05 03:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so classic of a guy my boyfriend tried that **** before he said he was only kidding but I think his own mother told them to always question it because I hear all his brothers saying that stuff guys can really be jerks take him to maury.
2006-12-05 03:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the typical guy for you.....he says that because he is scared.He doesn't know what to do and he may not be ready for a child.Give him some time and see how that goes.congratulations though.
2006-12-05 03:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by hottie4u_35776 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made him doubt you on the first place? maybe ur one of those !!!???!!! or maybe his one of those !!!!???!!! who knows, we only take ur word for it; kidding aside; if ur ques. is truthful, then I should say, your stupid for sharing yourself with this man not knowing that he would be irresponsible in whatever circumstances takes place in your future. Take heed.
2006-12-05 04:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋