Why do men run a mile when they find out I have children???

Answer 1

Do you? You must be talking to the wrong guys.

Answer 2

I think it frightens some men. Even the thought of beinga father would worry some, let alone sharing responsibility for someone else's children. As a single mother I found the guys who ran were the ones who were looking for a different type of relationship. The ones who stuck around were more mature for their age and saw children as part and parcel of the woman they were interested in. Funny how the men that run sometimes seem to be the ones that have run away from their own!!!!

Answer 3

Some men thinks that being with a woman with a child/children will bring to many responsibilities or maybe they are afraid of a little challenge,don't let those men break you down you have your children to live for,and i believe that there is some one out there for every one,you'll find some one to love you and your children it only takes time.

Answer 4

Its hard for some guys to deal with another persons kids as well as the ex spouse. That goes both ways. I got divorced in my mid thirties and it seemed that all my dates were with gals who had little ones, I to had two children in there early teens. I did not want to raise more kids along with my own. So I dated had a good time meeting new people and steady dated some. Now at 50 I met a great gal we both have grown educated kids and are quit happy. Moral of my story is take care of what you got and raise good kids with no interference of others. Good things will come.

Answer 5

Some men just aren't ready to be a father. They feel it will take away some of their freedom. Others don't like the idea of raising a child that's not theirs. Don't be down about it cause the men that run are not the ones you want anyways for you and your children. The right one will come along and believe me their out there ok. Just keep your chin up and be patient. ;o)

Answer 6

They are afraid of having to get too committed with feeding and taking care of the children. If they run, it is a good thing for you because it shows they are not right for you in the long run, eventually you will find a guy who loves kids and you can settle down with.

Answer 7

First of all they want virgins. The second and the main reason is that they only want u and u and dont want to take the responsibility of ur children. The men also take women with children as mothers and all men respect their mother. The men approaching u will be 4 sex. Wait somebody else may come who doesnt need sex- (some times me!!)

Answer 8

Your meeting the wrong men if a man cannot accept your child/children in this day and age then they aren't worth being with in the first place. i always make sure i get it out in the open from the start that i have a child if they run i know they werent worth it. you'll find someone dont worry :-)

Answer 9

If you are a single mom chances are you devote more time to your children than your partner. It would be easier to date single women without kids because they have more time for their boyfriends

Some men like me don't want to be a father figure at all.

Most men would not like to raise another man's children, specially if the the father is involved in their life. They will most likely prefer his company in spite of all the love and care you give them.

Answer 10

Let the guys know up front you have children. If they're not interested, then neither are you. Right? Be patient. You don't want to fall for a guy that can't love your kids. I've been through it and I waited for a guy that loved my children as his own. You'll never regret it and you owe it to your children.

Answer 11

Don't give up. I was 31, divorced with three small children. I met a great man. We got married and had another child. We have been together 12 years now and it is great. If you find someone who truly loves you it won't matter how many kids you have.