i love my girlfriend very much, more than i ever intended to do! but she is a very closed person, by that i mean she never tells me how she feels about things, she never tells me when something is wrong. it really bothers me coz i really care about her, but i don't know how to tell or showe her how much i love her and care about her. we are really the same in the way that we don't talk about our feelings and we both ignore problems but i can't any more. i know if things continue like this i'm gane lose her. i don't know what to do. how to i tell her how i feel (i suck with words) and how do i get het to open up to me?? pls help me.
just for the record i'm a girl not a guy,meaning i'm gay! so don't give me guy advice!
2006-12-05 02:59:49 · 7 answers · asked by ladybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to tell her you want to know how she fells no matter what you will love her maybe she thinks your going to leave her
2006-12-05 03:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you really need to talk to her about this. maybe she has had a problem in the past which keeps her from telling you her feeling
2006-12-05 11:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Scotty M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why can't you forward this to her, and preface it with "I really am trying to tell you something"? OR...just open up and tell her everything you mentioned above. People that are closed up can learn to open up if someone shows them the way. If she sees how sincere you are, she may feel comfortable to open up to you.
Good luck...relationships are never easy, but worth it!
2006-12-05 11:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is reassure her that your always going to be there for her. You can't make her talk. She'll talk when she's ready to talk!! Be patient and show her how loving and supportive you are.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-12-05 11:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Be honest with her as you are with us. If you cant talk to her in an honest fashion, then I seriously doubt this relationship can work out. Good luck to you both!
2006-12-05 11:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is very imprtant in any relationship regardless of your sexual oreintation. Are you sure she's loves you as much as you love her? Maybe that is what's bothering her and she cant bring herself to say it?
2006-12-05 11:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to open to her first and bring out ur problem to her first
then may be she will feel free to tell u her problems as well.
2006-12-05 11:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋