Alot has been going on here altely exspecially about what happened over the past weekend. You know how I went and stayed at a male friends house drinking without my boyfriend there. Anyways at first he kept asking me if I slept with the guys and after the millionth time of saying know I broke down and started to cry. He said he beilieved me and then he and I had make up sex. I felt deep down however that he didnt beilieve me. The next day I asked him about it and he said that if he didnt believe me then he would have had sex with me. After crying on his chest for an hour he began to see and understand that I recognized what I did was wrong and I was truly sorry. After hours of cofersations and 4 months of being together he asked me to be his wife. I told him yes but if he wasnt serious and was just juoking then it wasnt all that funny. We have been through alot and are head over heels for each other. I hope Im just not making a mistake. I want to be with him and no one else.
2006-12-05 02:47:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WAIT....You were NOT wrong to go to a party without your BF. A bf does NOT have to be by your side in everything that you do. He's not very nice to have given you such grief over this. You didn't get in trouble so there's no reason for him to be so overbearing.
Sounds like he's got some trust issues and he may become even MORE controlling after you get married. Make sure he allows you to be yourself. A marriage is a mutual commitment between two people, not one telling the other what to do or how to behave.
2006-12-05 02:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you to have has your problems. But I think that would be the best choice. So follow your heart. And if you really do love hiim and are willing to spend the rest of your life with him. Go for, and do your best to make each other happy. Live and love. And live life to the fullest with each other. Just make the best out of everything.
2006-12-05 10:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by greenlantern28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems pretty odd after only 4 months getting married especially since you obviously don't know him if you did something that he didn't like already. Might want to hang on for a little bit longer and check and see if he has any skeletons in his closet like you do
2006-12-05 10:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why are you even asking this question? you, yourself said you want to be with him...so that mean yes doesn't it? and besides even if you are making a mistake you can always just get a divorce.
2006-12-05 10:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been together for 4 months, give it time.
2006-12-05 10:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by noonee333 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask us, then you should say no. Sounds like you are not ready to get married.
2006-12-05 10:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tab 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you already said yes babe!!!!!
ask each other does u know what marriage entails????
2006-12-05 10:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you already told him yes so take it from there.
2006-12-05 10:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go girl...say yes and get your man! (please be careful with the booze on the wedding night) and good luck!
2006-12-05 10:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by jordpr_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont do it!
2006-12-05 10:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋