Does he really love me???

Question

Since 6 months a 16 aged handsome guy at my collage used to look at me always ( i am 14). But he never tries to talk or smile with me. My friends say that he was looking at me even at the playground, schoolcafe, etc.. i too have noticed it but when i look at him he pretends as he doesn't look at me. I have talked with him for around 7 times but not about any personal things. (I think now i am in love with him coz of my friends). But from last week he didn't look at me at all. If he really loves me why can't he tell it? OR how can i ask him about this matter? Can Anyone plz tell me any reason for this. my email adress [e-mail]

Answer 1

well. if he keeps looking at you he finds you attractive. i wouldn't use the word love in this case simply because it is such a stong word that people sometimes overuse. so yes he might like you. how close of friends are you? even if he does like you...from experiemce i will tell you, don't go diving into a relationship. i would start hanging out with him more. you see guys are funny. they are usually the more outgoing type. but at this age, when it comes to relationships, at first he will be shy. get to know him. most likely he's waiting for you to make the first move.what i mean by that is just giving him hints that you like him(if you do) onc ehe gets the messgae he'll drop "confirmation" hints of his own. depending on how you respond and react will tell hil or "confirm" to him that you like him (i.e saying "luv ya" at the end of an e-mail, or saying "I really hope to see you/talk to you again soon!" with exaggerated expression. once he gets the message, he's usually the first one to say "i like you" or ask you out. if this doesn't help i have more advice... [e-mail]. but i'm running out of time for now. hope this helps

Answer 2

I think u r little bit confused coz U R in love with him coz of u r friends arguments plz be aware of this. Ask u r self Did u like some speciality of that boy? Did u realy fill that this guy is different from others ?
My dear dont hurry in this case. If u want to make friendship with hime then go a head and talk with him. U will get relaxed.

Answer 3

Everybody else is right, you should talk to this guy before you start throwing around the L word all of a sudden. By the way you talk you don't know much about this guy, you two need to sit down somewhere, possibly lunch, and talk, and I mean really talk. Tell him what your feeling and ask him what he feels about it without the use of the L word and possibly see if he feels the same way and if he does then you're on the road to a relationship.

Answer 4

maybe he likes to see you, he admires your beauty.
The reason for looking at you may NOT really be love.
Don't get tempted/influenced by your friends, it's NOT good at all.
you're only 14, still a kid, better concentrate on your studies. Don't search for love coz love chooses you. And one more thing,you're not in love with him, it's just a crush, you're attracted to him coz he used to look at you. Cheer up.

Answer 5

He does not LOVE you, because he doesn't even know you.

If you wish to pursue this, I would recommend confronting him upfront, asking him if he is interested in dating, and take it from there. Don't jump into something as serious as "love" so quickly; he may be interested, but then again, he may not be, and by falling for him before talking to him, you're only setting yourself up for heartache.

Answer 6

love and infatuation are two diffrent things. for me he's just infatuated to you. if he really loves you he'll do anything to express his feelings

Answer 7

hon, if he nver talked to u than why would he love u? maybe u should talk to him.