when you seeing a guy casually, yet your giving him mixed signals about taking things further with him sexually, even though you really like and you dont mean to give him mixed signals.......if he says "would you have slept with me if..... (then mentions something...a reason shall we say), is he just after sex or is he just confused?
i do want to take things further with him but i want to be dating first.
he says he likes me etc etc.....
2006-12-05 02:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are comfortable talking about sexual what ifs, then you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about whether or not you are dating him, don't you think?
If you're willing to talk about his tab going into your slot, then screw up your courage to say, "Are you interested in dating me or just having sex?"
Too many women make the mistake of thinking that a guy's sexual interest means they want a relationship or that having sex with a guy means they are in a relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. So, find out the truth before you get hurt.
2006-12-05 02:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Karen L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are doing. If you are kissing him in a sexual way, yeah, he is going to get the wrong impression of you. He wants you for the sex. You have to be really careful when dealing with men. They look at things as innocent as your eye contact as a sexual advance. If you don't want to be with him unless you are dating but he won't date you then obviously he doesn't want a real relationship so you need to move on.
2006-12-05 10:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be considering sleeping with him when you quite clearly can't talk to him honestly and openly, no holds barred?
I know I'm getting on a bit but, honestly!!
Let's get to the nitty gritty, if you put out with no strings don't expect to tie him down to a relationship either now or in the future.
2006-12-05 11:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mixed signals do get confusing. I would recommend being upfront and honest about your feelings.
"he says he likes me" is no reason to sleep with a guy. Tell him to back off and if he doesn't, get rid of him.
2006-12-05 10:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the dating thing! Most guys don't want sex before dating unless it isn't for sex. Most young guys think with the head that has no brain!
2006-12-05 10:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just using the word "Slept" should tell you..he wants to F*ck you...that's why just get to know him and see if he is into you and wants a relationship..
Respectful men don't say "slept" or even talk about it in that way....
2006-12-05 10:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if you dont know how can you expect him to know. he CANNOT read your mind. ask him out or stop pick one and stick to it. he is probably wondering what you meant by something right now and thinking about how much time he is putting into someone that he cant figure out.
2006-12-05 10:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't send mixed signals tease
2006-12-05 10:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Buddy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is just as confused as you are
2006-12-05 10:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys do get confused. he might be. tell him how u feel.
2006-12-05 10:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋