2006-12-05 02:36:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm going to tell you what my dad once said to be about this.
" their your kids and the way you raise them will reflect on you as a parent, I am the grandpa and I'm here to let them know they can count on me and that I will not judge them". So you see if your kids come out bad its your fault and not the grandparents fault.
My dad as a father was very strict with us, he wanted us to be and do the best we could, he did play with us, he did spend time with us, but I did see the difference when my kids were small, my dad was another person, one that I started to know through my kids.
Hey I think I'll do the same. ;-)
2006-12-05 03:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is when we grow old we become childish, so it is really hard for a grand parent to be very strict because he/she feel that love of being a kid yet it is impossible and top of that admiring his/her daughter during the early stages of childish at times resembles the grown up daugher of hers, so if all is compiled then no strict measures you should think of
2006-12-05 02:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ConRob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many infants are raised by employing Grandparents at present, often by way of fact their own infants are drug addicts, in gaol or lifeless. a newborn desires a loving relatives to thrive. A Grandparent is a loving relatives. there's no disadvantage if a newborn is enjoyed.
2016-10-14 01:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have already made their mistakes and they can send them home! You can be the bad guy as a parent! Grandparents certainly don't want to be the bad guy, nor do they want to be the parent!
2006-12-05 02:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by cantcu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because their old and tiered, besides, I think they rather see their son or daughter going through the crap they had to deal with when taking care of them. It's almost like going to a boxing match, you get to enjoy other people beating the crap out of each other
2006-12-05 02:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Gabe Pulaski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't have to deal with the chaos that happens after they leave. They can spoil them to no end, but won't have to deal with the screaming and crying once they leave and mom and dad say the kid can't have anymore of what grandma and grandpa just gave them.
2006-12-05 02:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grandparents have the experience of racing there own children.They are sometimes less under everyday pressure, from work or everyday life.
2006-12-05 02:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they can spoil them and give them candy and caffine and then send them home...they dont HAVE to take care of the kids. The parents do. (Thats what my mom tells me, anyway???!!!!)
2006-12-05 02:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Chris R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they know they can send that bad child back home!
2006-12-05 02:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by KaShae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WONDER THAT EVERYDAY,I WOULD HAVE NEVER GOT AWAY WITH WHAT MY KIDS DO NOW,THEY BREAK SOMETHING AND THAT'S OK I WOULD HAVE DONE THAT I WOULD'VE HAD A RED AS$..........
2006-12-05 02:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ lou lou ♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋