I broke up with my ex-boyfriend on our 4 month anniversery which was on october 10th of 2006 and i really still have feelings for him and he just wants to be friends becuz i wouldnt go live with him. now that we're split up i regret of not living with him. i dont know what to do. now i feel bad and we had sexual intercourse on july 4th of this year and i really miss him. should i move on or try to get him back?
2006-12-05 02:33:46 · 23 answers · asked by mchavez_12000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you call him and ask him if he misses you. If he does, maybe he might be interested in taking you back, if you want that.Maybe he won't . You wont know until you ask. Go for it.
2006-12-05 02:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got two sides to this question.
First, I think you should try to get him back. Second chances are golden. If you approach him and really tell him how you feel and that you made a mistake and you feel that you wasn't ready at the time but now that you guys have had sometime apart ou feel as if you can go all the way with him, then I'm pretty sure he will undersand you well.
Second part, no I think you should let him go. Sometimes people mind are made up, espically being that you are the one who broke up with him. Let the feelings go and and just move on because reguardless if you get back together there is always going to be that tention between you guys about your last breakup, which will continue to calls all type of trouble in the relationship.
So those are my answers.
2006-12-05 02:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by anthonycainion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one. No matter how many times I or anyone else tells you to move on and not go back to him even though it is the logical thing to do, you probably won't do it because you can't give up the feelings you have in your heart for the opinion of strangers, so I'm going to advise you to go with whatever feels best, I've always been somebody to do that.
Recently, I told the guy I loved that I loved him (although I didnt say it in so many words I made it more than obvious) and since then he has been much more affectionate and caring towards me, which is surprising, i was expecting him to run a mile, it just goes to show that blokes do have feelings, so I suggest you try that. tell him that you DO lov him dearly, but you were hoping he would understand the fact that you wern't quite ready to go to the next step yet. Tell him it had nothing to do with him, you just like your independence, and that if things go well between you for the next couple or few months and he asked you again then you would probably say yes, but tell him not to hold you to it, to let things gradually and smothly rn between you.
You probably think I'm n old bag for rambling on lik this but I truly hope I have helped a little. Please feel free to email me about anything at all you want and I will honestly do my very best to hlp you, I know its a painful time for you hun. xxx
2006-12-05 02:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.... So you wouldnt live with him, but you had sex in july... The sex thing has nothing to do with breaking up right.... Well... I dont think Im understanding the question then. Why did you two break up? Tell him how you feel... So where that gets you.
2006-12-05 02:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he doesn't want to be with you anymore, I would just be his friend and move on. He may be still hurt from you breaking up with him. Give him some time and wait and see if his feelings change. In the meantime concentrate on yourself and find ways to better yourself. I hope it works out for you.
2006-12-05 02:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go stay the night with him, I'm sure the two of you will figure out the right thing to do.
2006-12-05 02:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Months is not enough time to know if you want to live with someone, take it easy and go with your first instinct on this one try to just date.
2006-12-05 02:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love you have left him just keep it like that these things hardly ever work out after you guys have alreadt broken up.Just it go
2006-12-05 02:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and chalk it up to a somewhat painful lesson. Don't move in with him if you don't want to. Be true to what you think is right.
2006-12-05 02:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There has to be a reason that you didn't want to move in with him in the first place. Go with your first mind..ALWAYS! It won't steer you wrong.
Good luck.
2006-12-05 02:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by KaShae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋