my boyfriend yelled at me for the first time because he said i was getting on his nerves. my friends told me he did it because he wanted attention from his little homies. we been dating now for a month. and im still a 16 year old virgin and he told me that he loves me and wants to be with me for a long time should i believe him? he calls me everynight he falls asleep on the phone with me and he said he wants to have a baby by me. but i want to save all this for marriage am i wrong??
2006-12-05 02:31:42 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did u do something to get on his nerves??? its only been a month and you're still young!!!!!!! too young to have a baby. you're not wrong to save all this for marriage. rushing into anything right now might leave you regretting it for the rest of your life. youve got your whole life ahead of you. if he really loves you then he'll wait for you for as long as he must until you're ready and trust me, now's not the time. take your time and play it safe. you're still young and have plenty of time later on for making babies!!!!!!!! love at this age MIGHT NOT be real.... good luck to you!
2006-12-05 02:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by ishida25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him intimidate you and/or sweet talk you into something you don't want or are not prepared for. If he really loves you, he will respect you until your good and ready and if that means after you get marred than good for you. Be a little careful though, if you get on his nerves now, how about later after the cloud with the silver lining is gone ? Take care your still young to think about getting yourself in a compromising position.
Good Luck !
2006-12-05 02:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . .you are just fine . . you are in the same spot i was when i was 15. I met my boyfriend and he pushed me by convincing me we'd be together forever. I believed i loved him but he had an on off relationship for 5 years and it was too hard to handle and then i met my husband at age 19 and now married at 22. If he is constantly rude don't stay for at your age many hidden crushes lie out there but people are too afraid to speak with all the groups that stick together and don't like to venture out. Stand your ground and if he truly loves you, he will have no problem waiting until you get married for there are many other ways to show love and have romantic nights together.
2006-12-05 02:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by jessbthegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are not wrong wanting to have a husband... before U have a baby.... If he truly loves U... he will wait.... Think of it this way.... U will be giving him or whom ever.... something that U can only give away once..... be sure that the love is true, b4 U give away Ur virginity.... at age 16teen, that is way to young to even think about having children....
2006-12-05 02:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def not wrong. believe in your morals do not change them for anybody or any of their talk. you are still young, and you have a lot to experience in this world and sex will come later in life or through love. one month is still a little to early to determine whether or not you guys are in love.
don't worried at him yelling at you that comes with the territory of going out with someone.
don't believe anything and just live in the present and believe in your morals. without those we are a mere shell of who we are.
2006-12-05 02:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no save your self in a few months you will not even remeber his name
2006-12-05 02:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him. If your getting on his nerves your probably a little to young for him. Move on. Whatever you do, DON"T HAVE SEX WITH HIM! PLEASE! Don't screw your life up.
2006-12-05 02:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do ya think i'm cute?
2006-12-05 02:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so young and so immature........
2006-12-05 02:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋