At the moment I live with my family in Turkey but ı used live in London for 3,5 year, having my own life then I came back to Turkey. But as I had great time in abroad, I am thinking of marrying my boyfriend and going USA to live with him who is an USA citizen. however I am thinking that if this can be a mistake!!!
2006-12-05 02:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Don't use the boyfriend to escape your unhappiness, it will just create greater unhappiness. If you really love him then that is a different matter. You are capable of making your own way. Much Luck.
2006-12-05 22:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you possibly don't trust your boyfriend! How long have you known him? CHeck him out (as for criminal records, etc.) before going ANYWHERE with him. I'm not saying he IS this, but he could be part of the sex-slave trade, which is HUGE! The people in this masquerade as "boyfriend", then promise you a great time back in the U.S. or some other richer country, then whisk you off to parts unknown.
You could always try coming to the U.S. BY YOURSELF, or as part of a student visa program and see if you like it. Don't become dependent on ANYONE or allow them control over you. If the boyfriend is actually nice, he should have no problem with this. And you can always leave the States if you don't like it.
Personally, I'd go to England again, since people there don't seem as prejudiced against Middle Easterners AND you'd get much better health care!
2006-12-05 02:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by SieglindeDieNibelunge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts about marriage then don't do it. If you're not happy where you are then go somewhere else, and if you want to go to the USA then welcome! (just do it legally, and please learn English if you don't already know it, it's easier on you and us!) It's not socially unacceptable to live with your boyfriend in the US and not be married.
2006-12-05 02:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy in Turkey, leave. But don't use marriage as an escape.
2006-12-05 02:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by maxinebootie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure of your decision then give your self time to think about it. And if you think is mistake don't go.
2006-12-05 02:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think it will be a mistake, DON"T DO IT!!
2006-12-05 02:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋