Ive known my girlfriend for about a year now but we only got together just over a month ago. She was with another guy b4 me but she broke up with him and is with me now. We were pretty close even when she was with the other guy but ive noticed that she lets me open up and tell her stuff but she tells me very little. She wont open up. I asked her about this and she got defensive saying that shes a listener more than a talker. Im not happy about it coz i feel like a bit of a fool telling her personal stuff but she talls me nothing. Should i just hold back? I mean arent relationships about being able to share with each other? Or should i just not try force this and let her open up when shes ready?
2006-12-05 02:27:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you shouldnt say anything for a wheil and see what happends then sence you r not saying much she probably will try to see what is wrong and then you can tell her nothing itis just that i want youto open up to me thats all it might help some i dont know well good luck
2006-12-06 04:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push her..give her time...i bet she has been hurt deeply and she has to learn to trust you...
if you love her...dont push, just let her know that u love her and are willing to give her time to feel more comfortable with u and let her know that she can trust u no matter what...
2006-12-05 10:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of rebounds?
2006-12-05 10:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My tip would be to try cunnilingus. It is great for opening up women.
2006-12-05 10:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋