2006-12-05 02:23:32 · 11 answers · asked by whitegurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that all depends on what he means by "the next level." my suggestion is to take things slow.
2006-12-05 02:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what the next level is, and if it is sex then it really depends on how much you care about the guy and if you can trust him because you have to be real careful about those types of things, you don't want to end with one of those guys that was only with up until that. So in this case you just have to think to yourself is it worth it and can he take no for an answer. You could probably test him and him no, then give him another month and see how he acts then you'll probably see what type of person he is.
2006-12-05 10:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose it depends on what the next level is. And how do you feel about it? You don't sound very excited. So stop and think to yourself. Is this a relationship I want to take to the next level?
If the answer is yes..then why the hesitation? If the answer is no and you have been dating him because hes an alright guy but you aren't in love with him...then you need to start being honest.Honest with yourself and honest with him. You are in charge of your own life. Decide if this is how you want to live it.
2006-12-05 10:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the next level is.... moving together=ok/ marriage= NO WAY! My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 years, and I'm still debating on marrying him, because I learn something new about him everyday. Sometimes it's good, and sometimes it's bad. For example, he loves to clean the house, and I hate it, but he doesn't mind picking up, because he feels like he's helping out, and he loves that. He loves to help out around the house. On the other hand, I'm a lawyer, and I'm constantly meeting with new clients and going to court with my clients, even though I'm very professional, he gets jealous with me. I hate it, and that's one of the reasons why I think things over when we talk about marriage. I would love to get married to him, but I want to get married without the mentallity, that there's always divorce if it's necessary. I don't want to marry to then divorce. We moved in together a month after we started dating, and personally it's one of the best things I've ever done. It speeds up the whole process. That way you know what his habits are, and what he does at home, that you would never see in public.
2006-12-05 10:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetibabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you want to do?Do you want to take it to the next level? If so then go to the next level!
2006-12-05 10:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by hugeflirt4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depend on what level he is talking about. Maybe you take more time on that. Cos some guy is just out to do whatever they plan to do. I might be wrong. It will have to be for you to find out more.
2006-12-05 10:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by blurblur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but don't do anything you are not ready to do. Two months is not that long, especially if you are a virgin. Follow your instincts and listen to your heart. You will know when you are ready.
2006-12-05 10:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no one can really tell u wut to do. its up 2 you. but....from experience if ur not sure u even love him or your being pressured, then u shouldnt do it. i was with a guy for 3 months and decided to do it. 3 weeks later we broke up........
2006-12-05 10:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ brunette_babe ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should listen to what your heart and head say if thier different.......... take what your head says
2006-12-05 10:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay back and enjoy
2006-12-05 10:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋