I was dumped by my boyfriend recently. He was acting really weird on the days leading up to it. Being really distant and choosing to ignore my questions when i asked what was wrong. Eventually i said it out straight to him that i thought he wanted to dump me and he said yes. First reason he gave me was that he didn't have enough time for me. He later changed his mind saying he couldn't see us getting married??!! Do you think he was talking crap?? Do you think it was an excuse to dump me for someone else?? HELP!!
2006-12-05 02:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by Dolly 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what you want to hear. The lie may be nicer then him actually saying to you I dont love you any more. Sorry, Good luck
2006-12-05 02:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say. Either way you have been saved from a worse fate....being with someone who cannot be honest or with someone who (for whatever reason) cant love and adore and honour you the way you deserve to be. Let him go, try not to get caught up in the whys and the wherefores. I know you dont believe me but in 5 years time it wont matter one bit. Save your energy on looking after yourself, picking yourself up and getting on with the rest of your life. He doesnt sound worth the heartache. Hugs
2006-12-05 02:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that....
did you see him regularly up to the days of him dumping you?
if you didnt, he may have been seeing someone....
did you think he had beforehand??? if not then its possible he wasnt but may like someone else.....
if he says he cant see you getting married- did you ask him why not...
my gut feeling is that he just didnt think you were the one.
2006-12-05 02:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was lying and didnt want to give you the real reason, but if i were u i'd just get my glad rags on and go find some new hunk who will treat you nice.
xx
2006-12-05 02:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what your saying but does it really matter? The end result is still the same!
2006-12-05 02:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋