my boyfriend is more excited with his work than our relationship. what shoul i do?

Question

it is about 3 years since we started

Answer 1

Get used to it. He's being an honest, masculine men. If men are doing what they love to do for a living (and ideally, I think that would be best), then they are blessed. And if they are going to be honest, any men would give up his woman to do what he loves, to do what he feels he is called to do. Cherish the fact that your boyfriend is so lucky, and stand beside him in support. Either that, or dump him and find a weak-willed, spineless man with no direction who will worship you because he has no cause in this life. Your choice.