When on this date there were many oppurtunities to cut the date short if not intrested. We both had a lot to drink late in the night after dinner and I stayed at his place. No sex. The next morning he walked me to the door and asked me if he was going to see me again. But that was saturday morning and now tuesday morning I still have heard nothing. I also called saturday night and left a message thanking him again for dinner and that I hoped to see him again.
2006-12-05 02:05:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you saw him on a Saturday night and he's interested he should call back just before the next Saturday night, but if he has to work or already made plans he probably won't call back until he's available to go out with you again.
2006-12-05 02:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From Saturday to today is not really a long time especially if he has a job. Just because he's a guy doesn't mean he wants to look vulnerable by calling too soon as if he's desperate. I'd give him until Thursday. He'll probably call and give an explanation as to why he hasn't been able to reach you, plus if calls on Thursday it still gives you a few days to prepare for another weekend out with him. Be patient and take it slow you'll hear from him. And if not keep it moving and meet someone new
2006-12-05 02:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it depends on a lot more details then that. And there is no true answer I don't think.
I'll take a stab in the dark though.
Hey may be thinking that he doesnt want to push and seem obsessed this quick. 3 days is not a huge delay. One week would be closer to worry time. He seems like a gallant guy with the "no sex" occurence.
He may have just been trying to appease you and not hurt your feelings. There are plenty of guys out there that really don't click with a girl but are gallant enough to try and not let the girl see that. Of course I bet you girls wish this guy would see that that just makes it harder to take.
Who says he has to call you? You have tried once, surely, but try again. Perhaps he got busy, didn't want you to have to be involved in his hectic life. Make it clear to him your ready to go out again and loved it. If you leave 3 messages and get no reply, hint taken.
2006-12-05 02:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by ☺ PeeJ ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next move is his, since you called and left a message. If he is interested, he will call soon, probably within the week. If not, he isn't interested. From Saturday to Tuesday isn't that long, but if a week goes by with no word from him, you might have to give up on him.
2006-12-05 02:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a good date with a guy i must be quite excited if he suggested as the subsequent day! i do not comprehend why all those suggestion books tell adult males (and females persons) to attend a number of days to call eachother. If a guy waited a week to call me after what i assumed replaced right into a good date, i ought to experience like perhaps he replaced into taking section in the container with different females and that i wasn't needed to him. you do not opt for to bypass so a techniques in the different route of determined that you come back off as aloof as a replace. good luck!
2016-11-30 04:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In "Guy Time" the space between Saturday & Tuesday is miniscule. I know in "Girl Time" the same space of time means that "he's ignoring me".
The healthiest approach is for you to never expect to hear from him again, so that you can make appropriate choices if any newer oppourtunities come along in the meantime.
When he does finally call, avoid time based comments like "Oh I was beginning to wonder if I'd ever hear from you again".
Just say hi, & take it from there. Because HE WILL CALL, I am sure.
2006-12-05 02:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called, said you hoped to see him. Now the ball is in his court. Just because you spent the whole night, it still could just have been a great one night date for him. don't lose sleep over it, even if you really like him. As soon as you have to chase someone down, you lose a little self respect. If you are determined, you could call him once more, but not before the weekend or it looks like you have no plans. Call him next sundy or monday 'just to say hi'
2006-12-05 02:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a week. Most guys will call by thursday at least in my experience. If he doesnt just assume hes busy or not interested and move on. Just remember it is the Holiday season and almost everyone is busy this time of year.
Also remember guys tend to call at the last minute so if a dude says hes gonna call you tommorow ...in "guy-speak" that means 3 days.
2006-12-05 02:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Coyote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's too busy to call the next day.....he may have some issues you're not aware of. You may want to reconsider your initial impression. I'd also caution you to stay sober until you know this guy better. If he hasn't called by now to make plans for the weekend....I'd wonder what's up.
2006-12-05 02:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a person has to decide weather or not if they want a relationship with a person but if you haven't heard from him the next day then he's just not that into you! beware they always come up with an excuse when they call days later.
2006-12-05 02:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋