I met a girl, the date went so good we kissed a lot and droped her home and kissed again she said that she cant invite me up because she prefer to stay first night alone (which is ok for me) the problem is that we r talking on phone now for 3 days (she sending me very nice texts), and she will be in holiday out of uk for a month, we can not arrange another date because she is very busy with her mum (who just came to London for a week), study and travelling shopping, i really do not understand is she still wants to meet me or .....?, i think if she really likes me she will do something to meet, am i righ ot wrong?
2006-12-05 02:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by beboo55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having been on the other side of that situation I can say she might actually just be too busy at the moment. I work 9am-6pm Mon-Fri and I'm at college 6:30pm until 10:30pm and also at college on Saturdays. Sundays I spend doing homework. Now, fortunately I get holidays from school and on these much-appreciated breaks I tend to end up meeting girls.
The problem then comes when I go back to college and I have no time to see them any more except perhaps on a Saturday evening. Often I do really like a girl but seriously, there just isn't enough time to meet up. Unfortunately, the girl always jumps to the obvious conclusion which is that if I really liked her I would make the time to see her. I've yet to have one of these girls like me enough to be content just talking on the phone during term-time and meeting up in-between.
So basically she might actually just be too busy and really wants to meet up with you as soon as she's got through her busy period. If she still wants to talk to you that can't be all bad. One word of warning though is that you do need to try and judge from talking to her whether she's just being polite or if she is properly interested cos you don't wanna be harrassing her. If she ever calls you rather than you calling her then that's definitely a good sign.
2006-12-05 02:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Marko979 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To find the right woman a man needs patience. If that is what she said she is doing then dont be selfish to her needs. Text when u can ,patiently work with her for a month until she gets squared away. After that time if she still doesnt come through then move on. A month is a small sacrifice for the right woman. Good Luck!!
2006-12-05 02:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Queenleo21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that she is just busy right now. Don't pressure her into sex at least only after 3 days! You might just be scaring her off. Take it slow or either find another girl that will put out on the first date but if you really like her, you will find it a pleasant challenge to win her heart.
2006-12-05 02:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Suggest you contact her and say that as you are so busy lets leave it as it is and if you feel like calling when your not so busy then you would be pleased to hear from her. Or does she not want to bother in which case you will not make any further contact. Then go away and get on with your life.
Have a happy and blessed Christmas.
2006-12-05 02:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well with it being the holidays and everything then she is really busy just like everybody else. She still wants you but she is way to busy trying to find Christmas gifts in this holiday rush. Give her time.
2006-12-05 02:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't chase her, if it wernt meant to b then thats fate, the best u can do is try a couple of times if u keep getting knocked back it'll only dent ur confidence in the future, plus wouldnt u rather look back and think, that was one of the best dates ever, than, oh that !! who completly ignored me,and ur right if she reallys wants it too she'll make the efort, dont forget that its a 2 way thing.
hope this helpsxxxxxxxx
2006-12-05 02:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say just be patient. If you really like her you can afford to wait until things die down and she gets free time to devote to you.
It sounds like she likes you and would want to see you again. Its just circumstances that prevent this right now.
Be patient and it will pay off.
2006-12-05 02:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and no, perhaps she doesnt want to seem to desperate, perhaps she wants to see if it not just sex you are after. there is a number of reasons, perhaps personal, she has known you five minutes her mum is down, give her time. if she likes you she will come to you. keep in touch with her though, just to let her know that you are still thinking of her. coming from a female, i think this is what i would want.
2006-12-05 02:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by lamyarhull 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cool your heels parnter, she likes you. Your workiing your brain overtime for no reason. And learn to have more confidence in yourself. It sounds like she's just busy with the holidays and who isnt?
2006-12-05 02:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just chill dude.... if she is interested she will get in touch when she gets back, if she does not then you have your answer. Stop looking so desperate and have some pride.
2006-12-05 02:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋