what do you do when the ex YOU broke up with wont stop running through your brain?! we have been friends for more than10 yrs we dated multiple times. I decided that we couldn’t continue dating because I couldn’t stand that a 23 yr old (now 25) refused to move out of his father’s home OR get a better job OR go to school, basically he has no ambition to do anything better with his life. I enjoy his company, the physical chemistry is great, and he loves my daughter. But I just don't understand why someone can sit still in life. Shouldn’t you want to grow? It’s very frustrating because I know I can’t make a life with him because of these reasons. I mean how can he be a providing father and husband when he hasn’t grown since high school?! But I can’t help the way my heart feels. Even though now he is telling me there is another woman he is interested in and I have encouraged him to go for it, like any friend would. But I’ve never told him that if he got his act together I would love to be
2006-12-05 02:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by The Fabulous Miss S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
with him because I thought I shouldn’t ask him to change for me, but my friend told me I should be fair and at least let him know how I feel. Yet again I have another friend who says ‘why waste your time when it hasn’t happened before it wont happen now?’ it all seems like a waste of time because we have gone back and forth. its seems like its to late what do I do?!?!
2006-12-05 02:04:32 · update #1
It's your choice. Personally, I agree with what you did, breaking off with him. You can't stand / tolerate what he's doing with his life. But of course, being ex - and great friends now, you still care for him. ONLY IF.... and that's it. Only if.
2006-12-05 02:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl. He's not worth the trouble. Anyway u have a daughter 2 think about and raise. Concentrate on her, then when the time is right Mr. Right will come along.good luck!
2006-12-05 10:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur on the right track. people like that dont have ambition in life. he may seem good at other aspect but he's missing the important thing. try to control ur feelings for him and concentrate on ur life with ur daughter.
2006-12-05 10:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by totallylost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just never grow up.
2006-12-05 10:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tell him!
2006-12-05 10:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋