my bf is still in love wit his ex and i'm tired of being number 2 in his eyes how do i leave without hurting myself and my 8th month old baby, ( he is not the dad)
2006-12-05 01:53:57 · 13 answers · asked by yourgirl1517 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just Go
Walk Out The Door
Dont Turn Around
And Go To Your Mums
2006-12-05 01:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL
He's not the daddy? You're worrying about hurting an 8 month old child? The 8 month old will not miss him when he's 18 months old.
Be a strong single mother. Concentrate on you and your baby. Leave the guy that's seeing someone else. If you two get together you'll always think he's seeing her again. So move on.
2006-12-05 09:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by almondjoy_1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and leave him...Who is he to treat you as a second woman??You won't be the first nor the last single mother in the world..By being with him you hurt both you and your baby.Try and live for yourself and your baby...not for this selfish man who wants to have you around just to fill in his ex's gaps!!!Please don't do this to yourself..
2006-12-05 09:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will hurt, so what, hurt now or hurt later. You can't feel pain if you never love, and if that is not a choice, then love when you can, and when it is over, feel the pain, heal and move on.
2006-12-05 09:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be realistic, ur inlove with him... meaning leaving him will hurt u and thats normal. whats more hurting? continuing ur relationship and he's heart and mind not focussed on u or let him go and move on with ur life? both, i know it hurts but u have to accept the fact that he's not inlove with u. try to move on, sometimes ur heart is deceiving, sure its not going to work on both of u. there's a life ahead of u and ur baby.
2006-12-05 10:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by totallylost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kick him out....
As for hurting yourself..... There is no avoiding that since it seems that you attached to him.... You just have to take care of yourself and your baby...
2006-12-05 09:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think your 8 month old baby would realize if you broke up?
2006-12-05 09:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by XY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your tired of being number two and you want more attention
2006-12-05 09:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by I am smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him in person and tell everything what querry you don't like nor leaving him.
2006-12-05 09:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can say him to you love me :))
2006-12-05 10:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by legend_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋