I told him I was going back to another guy..he knows that we are impossible and I love him but now he is really ignoring me and I can't stand it because I want to at least be good friends I tried contacting him through his clasmate but he still leaves his cellphone off and won't come online...I think he did love me alittle he is 15.
2006-12-05 01:52:51 · 11 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him please don't ignore me because its driving me crazy
2006-12-05 01:58:04 · update #1
He's upset and doesn't want to be bothered with you anymore. I'd leave him alone for a while until he cools off.
2006-12-05 01:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told me you loved me, and then went back to some other guy, I wouldn't talk to you either except to say hello! Why do you want to contact him? Doing that just hurts him more!
This seems to be a lot about you and your insecurities! You can't hurt people and expect to be friends! What you want to him is not material! You can't always have what you want to make your conscience feel better at someone elses expense!
Seems as if you have some growing to do!
2006-12-05 09:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by cantcu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion you want it both ways. You want him to want you, because you like the attention and you really don't want him with anyone else even though you are with someone else. But you also want the guy you are with now because that is more accomodating and like you said it didn't work well with you and the other guy.
I say stop being selfish, stop trying to have it both ways. Let him get over you and get on with the rest of his life with someone who loves him and wants to be with only him. If you really care for him stop trying to string him along.
2006-12-05 11:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect?? You dump him, go back to your ex and you expect him to be fine with it? Wake up and smell the broken heart!! If you dont want to be with this guy and just want to be friends then you'll have to accept he needs space from you right now. He might come round and be friends eventually, but he might not. Even if you do manage to be friends, it may never be 'good friends' that you're hoping for.
2006-12-05 09:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! cause you hurt his feelings by saying you're going back to another guy. He is jealous of it. Reason why he is ignoring you is to forget you. Seeing or remembering you makes his heart break
If you were in his shoes what would yo do ? hmmp?
2006-12-05 10:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by jon_yao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and have fun, don't worry about just one 15 year old. you are young and think the world stands still because he is ignoring you. He is just showing his power if he ignores you.Don't worry about it if he likes you he will stay in touch.
2006-12-05 10:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that same thing happened to me too...umm all i can tell u is to give hims some time ..my guy friend did have a crush on me but after things didn't work out we hooked up (meaning we started to date) and now we are really cool wiuth each other....
Its crazy that things have a way to work them selves out!!!!
2006-12-05 09:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by kellydarcey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is avoiding you. Because he has feelings for you and there's no room for him and he does'nt want to get hurt.
2006-12-05 09:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by cooper42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. He looked at you as a play toy. He has moved on. So should you.
2006-12-05 09:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and he wants to marry you
2006-12-05 09:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by John Scary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋