My girlfriend told me the other nite that her friend has invited her to a party. I thought that she would want me to go aswell but she said that her friend had only invited her. Im not happy about her going to a house party coz i know guys will be trying to put the moves on her. I told her i wasnt happy about it and she said she wouldnt go if it upset me. So should i ask her not to go or should i let her do her own thing and trust that she'll be faithful?? If she really wanted me to go and to be with me she wouldve asked me to go anyway, wouldnt she???? I mean if i was invited to a house party shed be the first person id think of asking to go........Does this mean she doesnt feel the same way about me as i feel about her? Thanks
2006-12-05 01:49:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you thing your girl is mature enough to go to the party and behave responsibly then let her.
If not be sure to make sure that you will both be doing something together on that night that will make her think that the party would have been a load of crap anyway
Good luck
ily!
2006-12-05 01:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand why you would be upset. She should have invited you to go with her to the party.... BUT since she didnt you need to let her go and hang out with her friends or she may think you dont trust her and then there will be more issues than there already is. Have a guys night out and dont invite her to come along. But make sure to have it on a different night when she doesnt have any plans. She will see how you felt and will maybe think twice next time that she is invited to go somewhere without you.
2006-12-05 10:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If you don't trust her when she goes out, then you've already got relationship issues and you two won't last long anyways. Guys may hit on her at the party, they may do it at the mall when she goes shopping, they could approach her when she works at the local Wal-Mart, but how does she respond? Does she say "I have a boyfriend. Get lost!"? Or does she say "What's your number, call me."?
If it's the former, then she should be allowed to go to this party with her friend and you can go hang out and do whatever you want with your friends. If it's the latter, then you guys are doomed, so it doesn't really matter.
Have you ever had a guys night out? It works both ways.
2006-12-05 09:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be able to trust her when she goes so what i guy put a move on her but they didnt do anything that just let u know that you have a very good loking gurl that the guys want but cant have because she is taken let her go and trust her
2006-12-06 12:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to let your gf do things on her own. She needs to have that sense of trust and individuality or you will stifle her and she will not be happy. Let her go and have some fun.
2006-12-05 09:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
party means generally everybody enjoys
if u arange a big party in ur place she wil be with u and ahe will be very very happy
she thinks same as u but party means generaly every body shows interest
try it
" U WILL GET SUCEESS"
2006-12-05 09:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by phani_atluri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋