Hi. I met this girl 2 months ago. We'v already go out on a date(a month ago) and really went well(we talked and laughted like 4 hours straight); we'v been talking in school and she is really nice and I really like her but I don't know if she has the same feeling because I'm the one who always hv to go talk with her, otherwise she won't talk with me(isn't this really strange? is this a signal?) she isn't shy with others so... 2 days ago I send her a funny message and yesterday she talked to me and she say she was in a hurry(she was lying..) that will talk to me later..so in school nothing.. she passed in front of me and.. nothing.. later on the internet I was online at msn and... nothing.. usually I'm the one who go talk to her in msn.. so I'm really hurt with her. The fact that I'm the only who takes the iniciative means what? Should I give up now? Or should I keep trying? She keep doing looks at me at distance. Thanks ;)
2006-12-05 01:43:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best approach is going and asking her directly. If she tells you she is not interested, move on. Though this will really hurt your feelings, you will only get more hurt by chasing her and watching her make you look foolish.
My advice: Go straight to the source.
2006-12-05 01:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being shy at others except you, could mean that you're just more special to her. So maybe she's unsure of her self with you? It's just a guess.
Could also be that she likes being chased. Which isn't very nice on you. But it could still mean she is in love with you, but likes to be chased. Some girls seem to feel more special because of the whole chase-thing somehow.
Or maybe she's just playing with you. And that's just nasty. In that case; ignore her. Try to forget her.
Just get her to talk to you, and find out. Maybe tell her that you feel hurt?
Other wise, try and ignore her a little and see if she comes to you. And if she doesn't, you might wanna try to move on, and forget her.
I hope you find out what her problem is. And i hope things work out for you. Good luck...
2006-12-05 09:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by StormyWeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you just need to back away and give her some space. Don't waste all your time waiting on her. Her feelings seem wishy washy to me. If she wants to talk to you then she will especially since she isn't shy around anyone else. Most times when you stop paying someone attention they tend to notice you more.
2006-12-05 09:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by ikkinaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just ask her stright out do you like me because I like you and would like to be with you
2006-12-05 09:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_happy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋