what is love, can someone not be loved ever at all? I feel like I wont be loved?

Answer 1

You are loved. You're loved by your parents, friends, and family. How could you never be loved? And remember there's someone out there for you. You just have to be patient because they come to you when you least expect it and when you truly need them. Hold on because you're not the first woman to think this. There are millions of women out there that think that they'll never find the person for them. The ones that don't end up married are usually the kind of people who don't want to be married or loved by another person. They're the type of people who don't need someone else to love them to be happy. Just please be patient. In the end, you'll find the person for you. Well actually they'll find you. Just always keep an open mind. If you date a lot of guys, be sure that when you go on a date to keep an open mind. Don't go on the date thinking that it's not going to work. You're setting that guy up to fail because then you start looking at faults. You could of just shot down the person that was meant to be with you. Also be yourself. If you're not yourself then when you are dating someone it's all a lie. The only way you can be truly happy is if you're able to be yourself. Just stay open about relationships. In the end you'll find the one for you. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

It is the greatest feeling in the world but the scariest journey getting there. The stakes are high, risking the presentation of your entire being to someone else, but the rewards are great, too. My suggestion is try not to dwell on this idea that you could never be loved or it will simply become a self-fulfilling prophecy for you. If you can't do it alone, seek qualified help to regulate your thoughts and emotions. You are not wrong for feeling the way you do. Conversely, if you knew you were "worthy" of love, you would not be wrong, either. Learn to love yourself and love will find you.

Answer 3

It's hard to feel loved if you don't feel it for yourself. Please read this poem:

Max Ehrmann


Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.


Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.


Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.


Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.


You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.


Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.


With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.


hobbes.ncsa.uiuc.edu/
desiderata.html

Answer 4

Love is when you love a person who you didn't know from prior but there is something special about her that makes you want to be with her, look at her, touch her, kiss her, hug her and be there for her till you are alive, it is that once you know that special girl, you dedicate yourself to her completely, it is when even the most beautiful girl will pale in comparison to her, it is when you see that beauty in her that other can maybe not, it is when you forget the face and look deep inside to see the real beauty in a person :) There are unfortunate souls (very few though) who don't experience true love whether by bad luck or by their own chpice :( and one can only feel sorry for such people.
Honey I am sure that you will be loved. A person who asks such a meaningful question must be a good person herself...so cheer up sweetheart :) you will be blessed by that special love in your life. Best of luck to you....

Answer 5

I Love You

Answer 6

Love starts with you and your surrounding environment. Care starts with self, review your daily life cycle - Physically and mentally. Look for ways to improve on them or seek help.
You are the LIGHT of love. GLOW !

Answer 7

You are special like any other human being life is precious and there's someone or something that will love you. it can be a human or a pet. especially a pet. love is something you can't explain but when you feel it you'll know.

Answer 8

i dunno how to explain the meaning of love to u. it's too subjective. they are so many people who loves u without you realising it. sometimes u might feel lonely but that doesn't mean that you won't be loved.

first, you have to love yourself. appreciate and reward urself evryday. get a hobby or do anything that can make u fell happy.
you will be loved. dun be sad k..

all the best to u!

Answer 9

i fell like you too, maybe some people just born to love others and never be loved!

Answer 10

It is important to love yourself. Then others will be drawn to you.
Get a critter, they love you no matter what :0)
Critters are no so wishy washy as people are...